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I’m worried she might not like me

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m Asian and can anyone tell me how to date a Black girl. I’m worried she might not like me because well I’m Asian.. So please tell me how to approach her because I’m super shy and I’m afraid she might say no.”

Why is this behavior so common?

Attractive Black Woman Graduate

“I am an East Indian male, professional, attractive. I consider myself a renaissance man. When I date I usually seem to attract only Caucasian women. I am however attracted to African American women too, but none of them (the educated, attractive ones) seem to date outside their race. I am not generalizing but I have found very few beautiful Black women with men of other races. It’s like “we’ve gotta support the brothas” kind of attitude. Well, as I see it the Black men certainly don’t reciprocate! Why is this behavior so common?”

Should a Black woman ever bother dating an Asian / Pacific Islander?

A Beautiful Black Woman

“Aloha, I live on Kauai and I am Asian / Hawaiian mix. For me it’s not the color of skin but rather what is in a woman’s heart that makes her attractive. Should a Black Woman ever bother Dating an Asian / Pacific islander? My answer would have to be yes! Embrace and be enlightened by the cultural differences and the foundation for a strong bond and an amazing relationship can begin.”

I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“I am a little late in this discussion about Asian men and Black women. I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman for almost 4 years now. There are plenty of Asian men that love Black women including myself. I think that a lot of Asian men are a bit timid when approaching Black women so for the Black women that love to date Asian men, you might have to start the conversion first. I think that Asian men that are born overseas are less likely to date Black women due to the fact that they don’t want to upset their parents but there are those that would go against tradition and go after what the desire of their hearts. I think that if a man love a woman enough, he will risk everything to be with her. After all He is the one who will be spending the rest of his life with her. Marrying my wife is the best decision that I have made next to accepting Jesus Christ into my heart. I have always had an attraction for Black women since I was in high school. Their strength and inner and outer beauty are what attracted me to them. You know what they say “One you go Black, you never go back” LOL well that is true in my case 🙂 My wife and I would love to be included in your discussion for the future. I think that a woman should not limit themselves to a certain race of men because we are all one human race with similar problems and interest and you never know who God will bring you so if you are open minded then you allow your king to find you and increase your chance of a life long happiness. Sorry I wrote such a long response but I am an advocate of interracial dating and marriage.”

What do African American ladies think of White European men?

A beautiful Black woman

1. “What do African American ladies think of White European men? Would you date a European?
I’m curious as to how women of color, and in particular African American women, view White European men. Would you be open to dating White men from European countries? Why or why not? What, if anything, attracts you to White European men?”
2. “Do Black American women like White European men and what do Black American women think of them, like do they have any stereotypes about them or something like that?”
3. “How do African-American/Black women feel about Nordic (European) men?
Hi, I’m a Nordic man with light features (blue eyes, blond hair), and I wonder how you ladies of colour in the US view someone like me. I find a lot of Black girls/women physically attractive. I like curves and I like the skin. I also think afros look nice on many girls.
I’ve known some African-American girls and they seemed nice.”

I AM NOT ASHAMED OF MY LOVE FOR YOU, NEITHER WILL I APOLOGIZE FOR IT!!!

A beautiful Black woman

“I love Black women, you’re beautiful, your eyes are mesmerizing, your skin is a masterpiece, a painting colored by the hand of God, all your flaws are invisible when viewed by the eyes of those who love you, you have no mold that limits you, you’re not a stereotype as some would have you. Black women are my standard of beauty, you’re more interesting then anything I’ve ever known, graceful in your movements and elegant in the ways my vocabulary can’t describe with just words written. You’re amazing in so many ways, I regret nothing that I have or may sacrifice for your love, I value you beyond gold, power, or anything else this world offers. To say no one would love you, or find you as beautiful as this short message is hoping to convey, is to say the world is flat and the moon is made of cheese. I know my heart and my mind better than some ego tripping and insult spitting YouTuber, I adore you, I may not be the one you desire to love you, but I do and I AM NOT ASHAMED OF MY LOVE FOR YOU, NEITHER WILL I APOLOGIZE FOR IT!!! T****** does not speak for me, he may speak about me, but he doesn’t see what I see when I see you. I want you to succeed and flourish in life, I want all those with hope for and are willing to work towards a future world that’s better than the world of the past, success in this effort. I love Black women, and I hope you will love yourself, you’re worthy of it, please don’t listen to those who speak hate, embrace your unique beauty and know that there are those who cherish every second we spend with you. You’re Loved just as you are! That’s all I have to say.”

Asian men on Black women Part 2

A beautiful Black woman

1. “I’m Asian and I love my Jamaican babes! 🙂 “
2. “I’m Filipino, I love Black women.”
3. “I am Asian and I love dark Black girls.”
4. “I’m Asian guy and I find Black females attractive… duhhh 😀 “
5. “As an Asian guy, I really appreciate the beauty of these chocolate ladies”
6. “…I’m Asian and I am attracted to African-American women…”
7. “Give me a Black girl 😀 “
8. “haha I think Black girls are cool.”
9. “Black girls seem friendly and cute, I like them”
10. “I’m an Asian guy and I think Black women are really hot.”
11. “So disappointed we don’t have any Black girls in Australia 😦 “