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The problem I have had in approaching Black females

3 Beautiful Black women

“For my situation specifically, the problem I have had in approaching Black females is that the approachable ones tend to be in large groups of their own race. To give you an example, I was invited by a Black female friend to a bible study. I was the only Asian male there in a group of probably 20+ Blacks. I hardly ever see any Black females join my group. Since Asians and Blacks are both minorities, they find comfort in being their own race, which I think is the problem.”

Getting up the courage to approach Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m one of those White guys that stares and smiles at Black girls/women like you. Why don’t (some of us, at least) get up the courage to approach girls/women like you? I suspect that it has something to do with the fact that while we may be attracted to Black girls/women, while we may, indeed, have African American coworkers that we’re on good terms with and while we more than likely daily interact with other Black folk in a variety of other settings, we don’t actually have any African American friends. And in not having those friends, we’re, well, uncertain as to how to approach someone from that group. Afraid, perhaps, that we might say or do something that somehow comes across as stereotyping in nature or otherwise insensitive. Afraid, too, perhaps of being too White (whatever that might be). Those are my ideas, at least. And something that I definitely need to work on, because, quite frankly, I find most of the Black women that I meet these days far more attractive than any others. Enough of my babble…”