Tag Archive | why black women are starting to PREFER to date and marry european men over american men

Getting up the courage to approach Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m one of those White guys that stares and smiles at Black girls/women like you. Why don’t (some of us, at least) get up the courage to approach girls/women like you? I suspect that it has something to do with the fact that while we may be attracted to Black girls/women, while we may, indeed, have African American coworkers that we’re on good terms with and while we more than likely daily interact with other Black folk in a variety of other settings, we don’t actually have any African American friends. And in not having those friends, we’re, well, uncertain as to how to approach someone from that group. Afraid, perhaps, that we might say or do something that somehow comes across as stereotyping in nature or otherwise insensitive. Afraid, too, perhaps of being too White (whatever that might be). Those are my ideas, at least. And something that I definitely need to work on, because, quite frankly, I find most of the Black women that I meet these days far more attractive than any others. Enough of my babble…”

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Ebony women are beautiful

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“Ain’t no secret, Ebony women are beautiful. Coming from a White man from London, England, shit I love me an Ebony Queen.”

For me Black girl is very exotic

A beautiful Black woman

“I can tell you from European pov… In my life I saw few Black people (only males) in person, I live in most of the whitest countries on earth… For me Black girl is very exotic, I would like to hang out with one, it’s interesting to meet someone from totally different cultural background.”

Black women are by far the MOST BEAUTIFUL

A beautiful and elegant Black woman

“I think women of all races are beautiful. In my opinion, however, Black women are by far the MOST BEAUTIFUL. I love everything about them. I love how their eyes sparkle when they smile; I love their Kissable lips; I love their independent thinking; I love their genuine modesty about how gorgeous they are; I love it when they are creative with their hair (and let it go natural!); I love their gorgeous feminine figures; I love their beautiful dark skin. I love their sweet personalities. I love their creativity; I love their ability to love unconditionally, and only ask that you meet them half-way; I could go on and on. What I really dislike is how misunderstood, underappreciated, and forgotten they are in many societies. I will never understand why so many false stereotypes about Black women are still perpetuated. I just don’t get it. That strikes me as being so unfair and so absolutely false. Sometimes, I do not know how these lovely women can continually put up with such ignorance. I guess that is THE MOST attractive thing about them. They have an incredible capacity to LOVE AND TO FORGIVE !! That is such an admirable attribute. Most of the Black women I know are so extremely dedicated, loving, giving, spiritual, honest, and trustworthy. Their Inner Beauty is limitless. Their outer Beauty simple Breathtaking. They deserve so much more. They deserve to be loved and adored wihtout limits. To all of you gorgeous Black women out there – You Are Truly Beautiful In So Many, Many Ways. I admire you for never giving in to the false hated that is out there. You are the epitome of what a woman can be. I am looking for my One True Soulmate, and A Higher Power seems to be indicating to me that she is a beautiful woman of color. How fortunate I will be when I meet her. It will be My Honor and My Privledge to give to HER all of my love; my entire heart and being; my total trust and loyalty; my very soul.”

The fear of rejection

A beautiful Black woman out on a date with a handsome White man

“I am White and think Black women are very attractive. Many White guys find Black women sexy. White guys don’t like to feel rejected so they don’t approach a Black lady for fear of rejection. Let a White Guy know you are comfortable around him and are ok with him being White and he will want to date you.”

Treat them as women

A beautiful Black woman with a flower in her hair

“As a European myself, I think we don’t obsess about race in the manner American White men do; if we see a sexy Black women, we view her more in terms of sexy than necessarily Black. Similarly, I’ve also noticed that African-American women are more suspicious of dating White men than Caribbean or African women, primarily due to this fixation on race. Yet as others have noted, when we European men chat with African-American women about things in general rather than focusing on race, the ice breaks. Needless to add, I’ve also been surpirsed by how many Black ladies like blonds, at least here in NYC; it seems that you need only treat them as women, instead of some exotic sex toy.”