Tag Archive | who gives a damn what they think

Go out and let go of stereotypes

A beautiful Black woman

“I find Black girls very attractive but what I find most attractive is their perspective in life and their inner beauty. Being a White suburban raised male, I was raised to fear the unknown and to stay with like minded people. However after I took the initiative to break out of that shell, I learned that women, especially those who were different than me, had a different view on the world. They also understood my view since my view is seen all the time in the media. This perspective and intelligence has been very attractive to me. It helps balance between my views so that a better truth can be found of myself and the world around me. To those like me interested in dating Black women, relax and be yourself. Forget about stereotypes because once you date as many women as I have, you will learn that each individual regardless of appearance is very different from one another. There are similarities in groups, and then there are differences and uniqueness. Go out and let go of stereotypes and engage your dates with curiosity, innocence, and genuine interest.”

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The rumors

A beautiful Black woman looking far off

“The rumors: Asian guys hate Black girls..BULLSHIT and F.U Black haters..I’m Asian and I’m totally in love by seeing Black girls X-P”

I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m a male Mexican from San Antonio Texas which is predominantly Mexican. I was married a Mexican woman for 15 years. We separated and got a divorce 3 years ago. When I started dating, I decided I wanted to experience and date out of my race, so I dated Asian, Middle Eastern, White, Caribbean, and other Latin woman. I love all woman, but the last person I dated was a Black female. It wasn’t because she was my last choice, it just happened that way. Well let’s put it this way, I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her, I am in love and plan on asking her to marry me very soon, as she can’t wait for me to ask her and can’t wait to make beautiful children. I live in Northern VA/ DC area and I notice the looks but it doesn’t bother me. We get along great and took her down to San Antonio and my family liked her, and for those that live down there that can be very difficult. I don’t see or haven’t seen a lot of Latin men with Black woman, but I will tell you she was my first and I love me some Black women. Just for the record I consider myself good looking and I have no problem attracting woman especially my own kind and I do get flirted with on purpose when I’m with her by both Black woman and Latin woman, it’s crazy it’s like a competition. Latin woman look at it like oh what does she have that I don’t, and a Black woman is like ohhhh he likes Black woman let me show him some more… But I love my woman She does her thing!”

I am a White guy who loves Black women

A beautiful & elegant Black woman

“I am a White guy who loves Black women.
On the personality level I think Black women are emotionally strong and assertive. They know how to flirt and have fun without being trashy. I have the feeling if a guy has the love of a Black women, she would have his back and would help him be a better man. I think Black women make good mothers, and can be tough when they need to be.
On the physical level I think Black women are absolutely beautiful and truly in a league of their own. Black women are voluptuous, have beautiful faces and smooth skin. They have the best smiles. I think they are comfortable with their bodies and are not afraid to show off their curves. Even older Black women look ageless and youthful. Black women look good even without makeup.
I like the way Black women dress, especially for church, weddings, or special occasions. They look so sexy and elegant.
I think other people get jealous of Black women and put them down.
I think Black women should know there are lots of well-intentioned White men out there looking for dating and marriage.”

 

 

Married to a beautiful Black queen

Married interracial Asian man Black woman couple

“I understand how you feel cause I’m a Filipino American married to a beautiful Black queen and we get those nasty looks but I don’t give a F*** what anyone thinks cause she’s my love.”

You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”

I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures

A beautiful Black woman rocking her natural hair

“Hispanic guy…dates Black girl…fake hair big turn off? I am a Hispanic male (of White race), however the race I am more attracted to are African American girls, but I think fake hair is a big turn off. I know not all Black girls wear fake hair, but the ones I’ve met did. (I never said a thing though, but still I wanted to). I’m dating right now, how can I let the girl know, without me sounding too racial or like a total jerk, that this is a turn off for me. I’m afraid what she might think…maybe she’ll get offended? Idk?”
Updates: “That’s cool, I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures…I think they are all unique and beautiful.”
“I once told a female friend that she looked better without her wig that she used to wear everyday but she didn’t agree, she said she felt more confident with it. So I said -ok however you feel more confortable- and she told me it wasn’t confortable…it’s weird, I just don’t understand….lol”