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Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Cuatro (4)

A beautiful Black woman

“You made some really good points. I’m White and I really like Black women, but I constantly run into people who give long speeches about why I should not date a Black woman and even insinuate that there is something wrong with finding them attractive.”

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That is what makes YOU so beautiful

A beautiful Black woman

“That is so true. I am White and I like Black girls for their exotic natural look. I’d rather be with a Black lady with super short hair than one with fake stuff on. That’s kinda creepy to me. Lol. And why on earth would you relax your hair or bleach your skin? That is what makes you so beautiful. I like you for you. As long as you love to laugh hard and would enjoy cooking together then I am happy.”

I’m a White guy dating an awesome Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“Really enjoy your videos and blogs. I’m a White guy dating an awesome Black woman. She’s a published author of a woman’s guide book, solid Christian woman and very much a girly girl, which I love. Our relationship is characterized by mutual respect and old fashioned values. I am the gentleman that opens doors, brings flowers and pulls our her chair. She is fully capable of all things but allows me these acts because she loves them and is fully secure in herself. I want her to feel cherished and pampered.  You talk in your blog about the “stares” interracial couples get. Most of our disapproving stares seem to come from Black men. A few of these were actually with White women at the time! So too bad Black men. If you cannot or will not appreciate the awesome and wonderful Black women out there then someone else will. I love Black women and think they are among the loveliest in the world. There is nothing “manish” about my girl. She’s a petite little feminine thing that I truly adore. Makes me feel sorry for all the men out there that are missing out,,, then again,,,, NAHHHH!! 😉 “

I am attracted to Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“I have dated mostly Black women, because I am attracted to them. It doesn’t matter if she is light skin, dark skin or whatever. I just find them beautiful and that is it.”

Ebony women are beautiful

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“Ain’t no secret, Ebony women are beautiful. Coming from a White man from London, England, shit I love me an Ebony Queen.”

Black women have the best arms and hands

A beautiful Black woman giving a hug

“Black women have the best arms and hands – long, graceful beautifully formed – their color is stunning in the sun – they are gentle in nature too – from a blue eyed almost White man”

Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Deux

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@Allie8_79  “…some Black men’s strategy is to talk Black women down to their non-Black friends and generally discourage IRR between BW and non-BM so that they can keep BW for themselves all the while dating out for as long as they can…”
“Oh yeah. There was a young Black woman I liked during high school [mid-70s], and I was good friends with her [male] cousin. I figured, “hey he can put in a good word for me, ensure her folks that I am a straight up guy and come from a good family, etc” As I learned much later, what a mistake. He told me that “she’s just that friendly with everyone so don’t read too much into that. And, I know she’s only interested in Black men because she told me.” What he said was pretty convincing, so I moved on. Fast forward three decades, and at a reunion…the first time we had seen each other since high school. We picked up like it was yesterday. We both wanted to talk about how we felt about each other. I told her how I had felt about her, and she asked why I didn’t pursue her. I told her what her cousin had told me. She was really mad at her cousin [who had died 2 years  earlier], because none of what he told me was true. She said even her dad [no-nonsense US Navy man] liked me, which would have been half the battle. Since we were both there with our spouses, we couldn’t just run out of there, but we thought about it (LOL j/k) I did get to meet her husband, a really nice Cuban guy. So at least she did all right in the relationship department [and he’s probably a better dancer than me too!]”