Tag Archive | What are you doing with her?

Stay calm and marry a Black girl

Attractive Black Woman Smiling

“lol, I’m a WM and I get mean mugged from White women all the time and my BW fiance gets mean mugged from both BM and WF. You definitely find out who your real friends are. Dating a Black girl is the best thing to ever happen to me and I’m enjoying the whole experience. Let them stare…I’ve struck gold. My new motto: Stay calm and marry a Black girl.”

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Assumptions

A beautiful Black woman

“All I have to say about this issue is that a lot of people out there are behind the times. Many non-Black women have assumed (consciously or not) that Black women are at the bottom of the pecking order when it comes to dating. This is a silly assumption. Because of this assumption, non-Black women are surprised when a non-Black (White, Asian, Hispanic) guy shows a strong interest in Black women. The fact is that these non-Black men who date Black women know something (and have known it for a long time) and that the rest of the world is slowly starting to realize and that is that Black women, far from being the bottom of the barrel are actually the cream of the crop. I speak from experience when I say this.”

Strength is attracted to Strength

A beautiful Black woman enjoying an intimate conversation with a handsome White man

“White men like Black women’s strength because we’re more secure in our positions in society and so have nothing to prove. We’re not threatened. Strength is attracted to strength.”

The rumors

A beautiful Black woman looking far off

“The rumors: Asian guys hate Black girls..BULLSHIT and F.U Black haters..I’m Asian and I’m totally in love by seeing Black girls X-P”

I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m a male Mexican from San Antonio Texas which is predominantly Mexican. I was married a Mexican woman for 15 years. We separated and got a divorce 3 years ago. When I started dating, I decided I wanted to experience and date out of my race, so I dated Asian, Middle Eastern, White, Caribbean, and other Latin woman. I love all woman, but the last person I dated was a Black female. It wasn’t because she was my last choice, it just happened that way. Well let’s put it this way, I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her, I am in love and plan on asking her to marry me very soon, as she can’t wait for me to ask her and can’t wait to make beautiful children. I live in Northern VA/ DC area and I notice the looks but it doesn’t bother me. We get along great and took her down to San Antonio and my family liked her, and for those that live down there that can be very difficult. I don’t see or haven’t seen a lot of Latin men with Black woman, but I will tell you she was my first and I love me some Black women. Just for the record I consider myself good looking and I have no problem attracting woman especially my own kind and I do get flirted with on purpose when I’m with her by both Black woman and Latin woman, it’s crazy it’s like a competition. Latin woman look at it like oh what does she have that I don’t, and a Black woman is like ohhhh he likes Black woman let me show him some more… But I love my woman She does her thing!”

Married to a beautiful Black queen

Married interracial Asian man Black woman couple

“I understand how you feel cause I’m a Filipino American married to a beautiful Black queen and we get those nasty looks but I don’t give a F*** what anyone thinks cause she’s my love.”

You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”