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We are very attracted to Black girls

A beautiful Black woman

“Don’t speak for me and my friends because we are very attracted to Black girls, NOT every Asian( which is 48 types) is brainwashed like you piece of shit”

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I just see her as a woman

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White guy. I’m married to a Black woman. We’ve been married almost 10 years. For me, race isn’t important. I don’t see my wife as a Black woman; I just see her as a woman – my woman. I really don’t think about it and neither does she. It doesn’t occur to us that we’re still outside the mainstream or not a “normal” couple. We really don’t think about being an interracial couple until someone brings it to our attention, then I look at her and think “oh yeah, that’s right; you’re Black!” LOL. The color of our skin seems to be way more important to other people than it is to us. I think way too many people focus on skin color. If we truly were all equal and we were all unprejudiced, then this wouldn’t even be a topic for discussion in this day and age. But, the fact that we’re still debating this just shows that people have a long way to go in living with and loving their fellow man.”

A cold day in hell

BWWM interracial couple dancing

“My wife and I get stares and comments like that from random strangers as well (from both sides Black and White), but in the end who gives a damn what they think. Either you let em make you miserable or you can hold your head high and just be happy with who your with (if you love them). Don’t get me wrong I know it can be trying, but it would be a cold day in hell before I allowed the stares and whispers of the small minded fools to keep me from going out in public with my wife.”

Can I honestly say I lived life the way I wanted to?

Black woman White man interracial couple

“I love Black women they don’t get near the credit for their beauty as they should. I knew that I was attracted to a Black woman when I was just a kid, for some reason they liked me to. But growing up I was taught this was not acceptable. One day I realized that all the ppl that were against interracial relationships don’t pay any of my bills and when my time here is up can I honestly say I lived life the way I wanted to? The answer was no I couldn’t. So I said to hell with what everyone else thought, I have been with a Black woman ever since… I’m also now married to a Black woman, yes we get stared at all the time but hey we don’t care it’s our lives those ppl don’t lay down with either one of us. So my advise to all you White men that are afraid of what others will think. (To hell with those ppl) Do you, be happy with yourselves don’t hide who you are because of what others might think or say…ay”

The ONLY people who give us grief

Young BWWM interracial couple

“Same thing happened to me. Every single time I date a Black woman virtually the ONLY people who give us grief about it are Black men. You’d think in Alabama there would be a few White racists making noise but with the exception of one old coot muttering a slur under his breath when we passed him at the mall the only people harassing us were Black men. The girl I dated in high school’s brother gave her shit about dating a White boy 24/7 even while he had a White girlfriend of his own. It makes me very uncomfortable to make any kind of blanket statement like this, but there honestly seemed to be some expectation that Black women had to wait for Black men, but Black men could date anyone they wanted.”