Tag Archive | the fact that my relationship is with a Black Woman is NO ONEs business but ours

I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m a male Mexican from San Antonio Texas which is predominantly Mexican. I was married a Mexican woman for 15 years. We separated and got a divorce 3 years ago. When I started dating, I decided I wanted to experience and date out of my race, so I dated Asian, Middle Eastern, White, Caribbean, and other Latin woman. I love all woman, but the last person I dated was a Black female. It wasn’t because she was my last choice, it just happened that way. Well let’s put it this way, I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her, I am in love and plan on asking her to marry me very soon, as she can’t wait for me to ask her and can’t wait to make beautiful children. I live in Northern VA/ DC area and I notice the looks but it doesn’t bother me. We get along great and took her down to San Antonio and my family liked her, and for those that live down there that can be very difficult. I don’t see or haven’t seen a lot of Latin men with Black woman, but I will tell you she was my first and I love me some Black women. Just for the record I consider myself good looking and I have no problem attracting woman especially my own kind and I do get flirted with on purpose when I’m with her by both Black woman and Latin woman, it’s crazy it’s like a competition. Latin woman look at it like oh what does she have that I don’t, and a Black woman is like ohhhh he likes Black woman let me show him some more… But I love my woman She does her thing!”

Married to a beautiful Black queen

Married interracial Asian man Black woman couple

“I understand how you feel cause I’m a Filipino American married to a beautiful Black queen and we get those nasty looks but I don’t give a F*** what anyone thinks cause she’s my love.”

I would treat her like the only woman in the world

A beautiful Black woman

“I think Black women are all beautiful and I love every thing about them, most White women are to princess like and want to be treated like one. But there’s something bout Black women that turns me on and they all have great personalities. And I’m not sure this happens often but in movies or real life shows most Black men don’t treat Black women how they deserve to be treated. It’s a shame because they don’t know what they got. I am currently single woot woot but if I had a Black beautiful woman I would treat her like the only woman in the world and I wouldn’t need anyone else but her ❤”

You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”

OUR HAPPINESS TOGETHER IS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS!

A beautiful Black woman being embraced by a handsome White man

“This is where it should come down to the old rule most of us were taught but apparently forgot…it’s called, “Mind your own business!” The fact that my relationship is with a Black Woman is NO ONEs business but ours….Not societies, Not the Black Race, Not the White Race, and NOT the governments. It’s ours…our choice! I’ve read eveything here today from, The White race wants the Black race to lighten up and let them in…the Black woman was called a sellout from the Black man because she dated only White men…and oh by the way..that same Black man was married to a White women. If you choose to date/marry only in your race ….GREAT…if you choose to date/marry outside your race…GREAT. BE happy…I will be happy for you……give me the same please. Don’t judge either of us …….I promise you, neither of us will ever judge you….we don’t care what you, society or anyone else thinks. OURS HAPPINESS TOGETHER IS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS! Have a nice life everyone!”