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Getting up the courage to approach Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m one of those White guys that stares and smiles at Black girls/women like you. Why don’t (some of us, at least) get up the courage to approach girls/women like you? I suspect that it has something to do with the fact that while we may be attracted to Black girls/women, while we may, indeed, have African American coworkers that we’re on good terms with and while we more than likely daily interact with other Black folk in a variety of other settings, we don’t actually have any African American friends. And in not having those friends, we’re, well, uncertain as to how to approach someone from that group. Afraid, perhaps, that we might say or do something that somehow comes across as stereotyping in nature or otherwise insensitive. Afraid, too, perhaps of being too White (whatever that might be). Those are my ideas, at least. And something that I definitely need to work on, because, quite frankly, I find most of the Black women that I meet these days far more attractive than any others. Enough of my babble…”

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There are more of us

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White man and I find the features and curves of African American women to be extremely attractive. There are more of us than most people have been led to believe.”

Don’t worry

Beautiful Black women

“Don’t worry Black girls, White guys will love you no matter how dark or light your skin is”

Ebony women are beautiful

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“Ain’t no secret, Ebony women are beautiful. Coming from a White man from London, England, shit I love me an Ebony Queen.”

I just see her as a woman

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White guy. I’m married to a Black woman. We’ve been married almost 10 years. For me, race isn’t important. I don’t see my wife as a Black woman; I just see her as a woman – my woman. I really don’t think about it and neither does she. It doesn’t occur to us that we’re still outside the mainstream or not a “normal” couple. We really don’t think about being an interracial couple until someone brings it to our attention, then I look at her and think “oh yeah, that’s right; you’re Black!” LOL. The color of our skin seems to be way more important to other people than it is to us. I think way too many people focus on skin color. If we truly were all equal and we were all unprejudiced, then this wouldn’t even be a topic for discussion in this day and age. But, the fact that we’re still debating this just shows that people have a long way to go in living with and loving their fellow man.”

Black women have the best arms and hands

A beautiful Black woman giving a hug

“Black women have the best arms and hands – long, graceful beautifully formed – their color is stunning in the sun – they are gentle in nature too – from a blue eyed almost White man”

Strength is attracted to Strength

A beautiful Black woman enjoying an intimate conversation with a handsome White man

“White men like Black women’s strength because we’re more secure in our positions in society and so have nothing to prove. We’re not threatened. Strength is attracted to strength.”