Tag Archive | questions about black women

Will they actually consider marrying a Hispanic man?

A beautiful Black bride on her wedding day

“I am a Hispanic guy who is very attracted to Black women, but my question is do Black women just like to “play” or will they actually consider marrying a Hispanic man?”

So soft and warm

A beautiful Black woman

“All the Black girls skin I’ve felt is so soft and warm. It’s crazy. What do they use on their skin? They also look so warm and inviting. Just nice to cuddle with. I know this is weird but what is It. And don’t let people put you down because you girls are beautiful. That’s coming from a White guy.”

I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures

A beautiful Black woman rocking her natural hair

“Hispanic guy…dates Black girl…fake hair big turn off? I am a Hispanic male (of White race), however the race I am more attracted to are African American girls, but I think fake hair is a big turn off. I know not all Black girls wear fake hair, but the ones I’ve met did. (I never said a thing though, but still I wanted to). I’m dating right now, how can I let the girl know, without me sounding too racial or like a total jerk, that this is a turn off for me. I’m afraid what she might think…maybe she’ll get offended? Idk?”
Updates: “That’s cool, I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures…I think they are all unique and beautiful.”
“I once told a female friend that she looked better without her wig that she used to wear everyday but she didn’t agree, she said she felt more confident with it. So I said -ok however you feel more confortable- and she told me it wasn’t confortable…it’s weird, I just don’t understand….lol”

Born one generation too late

A beautiful Black woman deep in thought

“I’m an Asian American male. I dated an African American female. She was perfection! I screwed it up. I can’t really blame my folks, who resisted, because they are first generation and they still have trouble with english. But it’s also a matter of cultural resonance. African Americans are more comfortable in their own skin, Asians are less so due to their confucian training…it can be intimidating. I love Black women, as gorgeous and intelligent as anyone. We were born one generation too late!”

I’m still going for what I want

A White man Black woman interracial couple

“I’m a European, from a pretty mono-racial society. Came to the States and found myself especially attracted to Black ladies. Initially I was pretty ignorant about all the controversies even though I thought I knew the history… That blissful ignorance is long gone. 🙂 Being much more aware now I’m still going for what I want. Don’t care what anybody says and I’m ready to stand up for myself (and her) when challenged. Peace to you all and respect to all who run after what they want whatever the obstacles!”

I find Black women maddeningly attractive

Beautiful Black woman smiling

It’s something about them that drives me crazy.
“Yes, I am an Indian who has never left India. And NO, my opinion is not based on Black women I see in movies or television. I spent 3 years in Goa, and I came across so many gorgeous Black women. (“Gorgeous” here doesn’t mean “slim” or “shapely”. I refer to the whole personality.) Shape and size really doesn’t matter. In fact, speaking on a strictly physical level, I think many Black women have large butts in proportion to their bodies. And that’s REALLY hot!!! But like I said, that’s not the only reason I find Black women maddeningly attractive. It’s something. Something I can’t put my finger on.”

Me dating or marrying a Black woman is not bringing dishonor to the family

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m an Asian man and I love Black women. I LOVE THEM!!! Asian men need to stop being cowards and start dating these beauties. I married my Black girlfriend. My wife is the best thing thats ever happened to me. We had alot of oppositions and issues from my side of the family. Mostly my mom and sisters…BTW both of my sisters are in interracial relationships. One with a White guy and the other with a Black one. Ain’t that some bullshit?! Asian families need to let their sons grow up and be men. Let them live THEIR lives. It’s MY choice. Me dating or marrying a Black woman is not bringing dishonor to the family. You being a hypocrite and a racist is.”