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If a guy takes the time to get to know you

BWWM interracial couple dating

“I agree v much with Dean. Most White guys are not aggressive in the dating world, and do very much try to be proper and respectful. Compliments are hard to express sometimes…just because we don’t say you are gorgeous, doesn’t mean we don’t think it…and we fear the repercussion of appearing to look at Black women only as sex objects. We need a sign, like Dean said. A longer look and a smile go a long way…for all we know, you have no interest in White men. Do have faith, young lady, that there are good..and good looking White men out there who are attracted very much to women of color. I met my lovely chocolate lady at work…we struck up a friendship…and when I asked her if she’d ever date a White guy, she told me she did before and he was the best boyfriend ever. Long story short, when I eventually asked her if she’d ever consider dating ME, she was completely floored…she had no idea I actually was attracted to her. Moral, if a guy takes the time to get to know you and you enjoy each others company…he may be attracted to you and just doesn’t know how to approach you. I’m confident you will find your vanilla man.”

I think Black women are the most beautiful on the planet

Attractive Black woman listening to music

I Think Black Women Are The Most Beautiful On The Planet
“I am a SWM that has dated Black women primarily since I was 16. I think they are stunningly beautiful and have beautiful eyes, lips and bodies. I am just not attracted to White women at all. The darker the better for me. Being in the arts I love Black women that like music and especially those that are into jazz, blues and old school soul…most White women don’t really get it when it comes to music.”

Where do I meet Black women?

2 beautiful  Black  women  enjoying  a drink

“Well, ever since I gained a proper desire for women – I have liked Black girls (being White). It is just personal preference that I prefer them more than any other race. But, the problem is that I don’t see as many Black girls when I want too. I live in a city with Black people being the second most popular race but sometimes, I just rarely see them. So how can I pick-up loads of girls when I don’t always see them…”

Strong, Black and Hot

BWWM interracial  couple

“What’s that old saying “I like my coffee strong black and hot and my women the same.”  When anyone asks about my wife that’s always my reply, and yes I’m White.”

Black women look good without makeup

Image of a beautiful Black woman

“Speaking of physical differences, I am actually an Asian man that has a preference for Black women. Here is what I (generally) find physically attractive about them. Black girls…-look good without makeup. This is like the biggest thing; it’s always shocking how much more attractive White and especially Asian women can look with the right makeup. If all girls looked as they do when waking up (without makeup), I think more people would see the beauty in Black women. It’s nice when your woman looks good all the time, not just with her makeup on. -have big beautiful lips -have beautiful eyes -are curvy and thick. I’m not a fan of skinny girls. I don’t like belly fat and I’m not a chubby chaser, I just like fat in the right places. -have proportionally longer legs -have beautiful skin tone (I like dark skin)I hope this helps.”

My preference

Beautiful Black woman being embraced by a handsome Asian man

“I am an Asian man from Brooklyn, NY and have been dating Black women all my life. That is my preference. It’s become such a non-factor in my life because all my friends and family are so used to it they never give it a second thought, nor I. So when I see how uncommon it is in other parts of America, I forget that it’s not an everyday occurrence. Well, I’m glad that you and some other Black ladies are speaking out on it and saying positive things.”