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“The Vibe”

Interracial couple Black woman White man

“As a White man I agree with you 100%. There are loads of White men out there who find Black women very attractive. The problem is that a lot of Black women, whether intentional or not, tend to give off the vibe that they’re not interested in dating outside their own race. In social settings you don’t generally see Black women mingling with men that aren’t Black etc.. And you’re also right that there are plenty of White men out there that love the curves of a Black woman. I think Black women feel a lot of pressure to date within their own race or hide their attraction to any man that isn’t Black. Well, if you are attracted to men outside your own race you should go for it. Don’t let anyone hold you back. Black men certainly don’t. Don’t allow yourself to become oppressed by a double standard. Date whoever the hell you want. It’s your life to live in and no one else’s so live it how you want to. You only get one chance.”

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The problem I have had in approaching Black females

3 Beautiful Black women

“For my situation specifically, the problem I have had in approaching Black females is that the approachable ones tend to be in large groups of their own race. To give you an example, I was invited by a Black female friend to a bible study. I was the only Asian male there in a group of probably 20+ Blacks. I hardly ever see any Black females join my group. Since Asians and Blacks are both minorities, they find comfort in being their own race, which I think is the problem.”

Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Cuatro (4)

A beautiful Black woman

“You made some really good points. I’m White and I really like Black women, but I constantly run into people who give long speeches about why I should not date a Black woman and even insinuate that there is something wrong with finding them attractive.”