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Our biggest hurdle

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m a Korean American man married to an African American woman. We’ve been happily married for over 10 years now. Our biggest hurdle was my traditional Korean parents, and in the end we were married at the city hall with just my best friend and his wife in attendance. My parents still do not accept my wife as their daughter in law, but that matters not much at all in our marriage and happiness.”

Born one generation too late

A beautiful Black woman deep in thought

“I’m an Asian American male. I dated an African American female. She was perfection! I screwed it up. I can’t really blame my folks, who resisted, because they are first generation and they still have trouble with english. But it’s also a matter of cultural resonance. African Americans are more comfortable in their own skin, Asians are less so due to their confucian training…it can be intimidating. I love Black women, as gorgeous and intelligent as anyone. We were born one generation too late!”

Dark skin: Alluring, Beautiful, Desirable

Beautiful dark skin Black woman

“When I was a very young boy, my parents were involved in the civil rights movement. Because of this, most of the White kids were not allowed to play with me, so I played with the Black kids. My first little girlfriends were Black, one little girl in particular was very pretty and very dark. Over the years, I did date some White girls, but I always seemed to gravitate back to my beautiful Black girls. It’s more than a physical attraction, I have found most Black women to be more loyal, less whiny, more practical and easier to get along with. A Black girl will work along side of you, as long as you’re working too and will make a better partner than most White girls because White girls want a man to take care of them, but a Black girl is willing to make it a 50/50 effort. My three children are mixed and I’m married to a beautiful dark Black woman. I’m saddened and angered that many people (including some Black folks who should know better) consider dark skin to be undesirable. I think thatĀ attitudes are starting to change finally, and that the obvious beauty of Black women is starting to be recognized more and more. The sexy curves, full lips, sensual smooth dark skin and high cheekbones of Black women are very alluring to this White boy.”

I love dark skinned African women

gorgeous dark skinned Black woman

“I love African women but their families don’t like Chinese guys. African women are also very close to their parents and having similar interests of marrying another fellow African. So it’s a lose lose situation on both ends. I like my African women dark, I mean dark dark, shiny purple brown dark. Mocha doesn’t do it for me. I’ve asked out 4 African women out on dates and I was always firmly rejected. I mean, I’m no Shaka Zulu but I wish Africans would give Asians a break because we love u!”