Tag Archive | Non-black men who prefer to date black women

Black women age gracefully

A beautiful Black woman

“From a Puerto Rican man I love Black women that’s all I date they age gracefully yum yum yum.”

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Go out and let go of stereotypes

A beautiful Black woman

“I find Black girls very attractive but what I find most attractive is their perspective in life and their inner beauty. Being a White suburban raised male, I was raised to fear the unknown and to stay with like minded people. However after I took the initiative to break out of that shell, I learned that women, especially those who were different than me, had a different view on the world. They also understood my view since my view is seen all the time in the media. This perspective and intelligence has been very attractive to me. It helps balance between my views so that a better truth can be found of myself and the world around me. To those like me interested in dating Black women, relax and be yourself. Forget about stereotypes because once you date as many women as I have, you will learn that each individual regardless of appearance is very different from one another. There are similarities in groups, and then there are differences and uniqueness. Go out and let go of stereotypes and engage your dates with curiosity, innocence, and genuine interest.”

My preference is dark skin Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“Everybody is different. As for me, I’m half Japanese, half Ecuadorian and only date Black women. I would never date my races, yes I’m narrow minded in that sense and my preference is dark skin Black women.”

God made Black women first, and made the rest outta what was left over!

A beautiful Black woman wearing a church hat

“God made Black women first, and made the rest outta what was left over! I’m a White guy, but I wouldn’t even consider dating, or marrying, anyone but a Black woman. Maybe I’m all wet, but I find in most Black women a great amount of inner strength yet a certain unique sensitivity or vunerablility. It’s hard to explain, but it’s there in Aces. For what ever reason, I just feel more at ease, more comfortable, with Black people in general. I’m one of only two White guys at my church of over 300, but I’m always treated as jan equal. Actually, I may get a little more attention, as folks don’t want me to feel like a minority. LOL”

The fear of rejection

A beautiful Black woman out on a date with a handsome White man

“I am White and think Black women are very attractive. Many White guys find Black women sexy. White guys don’t like to feel rejected so they don’t approach a Black lady for fear of rejection. Let a White Guy know you are comfortable around him and are ok with him being White and he will want to date you.”

Married to a beautiful Black queen

Married interracial Asian man Black woman couple

“I understand how you feel cause I’m a Filipino American married to a beautiful Black queen and we get those nasty looks but I don’t give a F*** what anyone thinks cause she’s my love.”

You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”