Tag Archive | My tremendous respect for Black American women

There are more of us

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White man and I find the features and curves of African American women to be extremely attractive. There are more of us than most people have been led to believe.”

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I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m a male Mexican from San Antonio Texas which is predominantly Mexican. I was married a Mexican woman for 15 years. We separated and got a divorce 3 years ago. When I started dating, I decided I wanted to experience and date out of my race, so I dated Asian, Middle Eastern, White, Caribbean, and other Latin woman. I love all woman, but the last person I dated was a Black female. It wasn’t because she was my last choice, it just happened that way. Well let’s put it this way, I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her, I am in love and plan on asking her to marry me very soon, as she can’t wait for me to ask her and can’t wait to make beautiful children. I live in Northern VA/ DC area and I notice the looks but it doesn’t bother me. We get along great and took her down to San Antonio and my family liked her, and for those that live down there that can be very difficult. I don’t see or haven’t seen a lot of Latin men with Black woman, but I will tell you she was my first and I love me some Black women. Just for the record I consider myself good looking and I have no problem attracting woman especially my own kind and I do get flirted with on purpose when I’m with her by both Black woman and Latin woman, it’s crazy it’s like a competition. Latin woman look at it like oh what does she have that I don’t, and a Black woman is like ohhhh he likes Black woman let me show him some more… But I love my woman She does her thing!”

Married to a beautiful Black queen

Married interracial Asian man Black woman couple

“I understand how you feel cause I’m a Filipino American married to a beautiful Black queen and we get those nasty looks but I don’t give a F*** what anyone thinks cause she’s my love.”

Treat them as women

A beautiful Black woman with a flower in her hair

“As a European myself, I think we don’t obsess about race in the manner American White men do; if we see a sexy Black women, we view her more in terms of sexy than necessarily Black. Similarly, I’ve also noticed that African-American women are more suspicious of dating White men than Caribbean or African women, primarily due to this fixation on race. Yet as others have noted, when we European men chat with African-American women about things in general rather than focusing on race, the ice breaks. Needless to add, I’ve also been surpirsed by how many Black ladies like blonds, at least here in NYC; it seems that you need only treat them as women, instead of some exotic sex toy.”

I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures

A beautiful Black woman rocking her natural hair

“Hispanic guy…dates Black girl…fake hair big turn off? I am a Hispanic male (of White race), however the race I am more attracted to are African American girls, but I think fake hair is a big turn off. I know not all Black girls wear fake hair, but the ones I’ve met did. (I never said a thing though, but still I wanted to). I’m dating right now, how can I let the girl know, without me sounding too racial or like a total jerk, that this is a turn off for me. I’m afraid what she might think…maybe she’ll get offended? Idk?”
Updates: “That’s cool, I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures…I think they are all unique and beautiful.”
“I once told a female friend that she looked better without her wig that she used to wear everyday but she didn’t agree, she said she felt more confident with it. So I said -ok however you feel more confortable- and she told me it wasn’t confortable…it’s weird, I just don’t understand….lol”

Black women in your country face such scrutiny

A hot looking Black woman White man interracial couple

“There is a huge double standard @The Truth Hurts in the black community in your country as to who is allowed to date other colors (we are all the same race). Black women in your country face such scrutiny when she dates a blond Germanic like myself, and even her “blackness” or loyalty to her “people” is called into question just for being with whitey. But a Black guy can date every fat, redneck the South has to offer or every white porn star/stripper in the U.S. and he still is considered just as “Black” as he was when he knocked up the Black chic. In Europe where I am from (northern Europe), most Black women date outside and not many European women like dark men–England being the exception. Caribbean chics like White males too….it is only a female double standard here in the States!”