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You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”

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Nobody seems to have a problem with it

BW WM interracial couple

“Funny I’m from Mississippi and I date Black women and nobody in my community seems to have a problem with it.”

I just wanted to know from a Black woman’s perspective

Black woman Asian man interracial couple

“Do Black women like Asian men?
I’ve been wondering this for a while. I’ve been told that Black women think Asian guys are weak. I’m Japanese/Korean so I just wanted to know from a Black woman’s perspective.”
“Update : @ anti cyrus – My last girlfriend was a blonde hair blue eyed chick (we were together for about 3 months), and she treated me like crap. When we were alone she would be like ‘I love you’ and in front of people she would act like we didn’t even know each other. I’m kind of done with White girls. I know not all of them are like that, but it really just made me feel worthless. I’ve always that Black women where beautiful. I’ve been kind of afraid to approach them, but I know that they are really loyal and care about family. I find that very attractive. I guess I just want a few tips on how to approach them without being offensive.”

Forget what everybody else gotta say

Black and beautiful woman

“iight foreal if anything I find Black women to be more desirable over all other races I always have and I’m Puerto Rican there’s just something about them, they seem more confident and independent and I love that about them they don’t take bullsh*t they’re fly and they’re more real than any other race I’ve been wit straight up (no offense) that’s why I’m wit a Black girl right now yooo! Forget what everybody else gotta say I love Black women”