Tag Archive | men’s thoughts on relationships with black american women

My wife is A GODDESS

A beautiful Black woman

“I never understood the men who didn’t like African
American women. Why do they need to tell the
world they “Don’t like them”. If you don’t like them,
or think they’re ugly just keep it to yourself.
American have tongues that are too loose. It almost
seems as if they are trying to convince themselves that
they don’t want them.
I’m Chinese and my wife is African American (she’s
calls herself Black, but I don’t know what the correct
term is). She’s is perfection in EVERY WAY. She’s
educated, humble, BEAUTIFUL and SEXY, Be*****
looks like garbage next to her (Be***** is pretty…but
my wife is A GODDESS). She’s also knows her place
as my wife and is very loyal. She’s always getting
approached by men of different races, especially white
men which I find weird because I thought White men
hated them.
My family always told me to marry from our own, yet
after meeting my wife when we were dating THEY
rushed ME to purposed, afraid I would let her slip
away lol. American men may not want them, but we
Chinese men NEVER had an issue with them. Real
Chinese people believe that race is not important, but
culture is. If you accept the culture you too will be
considered Chinese. The Hong Kong -neses are the
rascist ones and they were ruled by England (so you
see why they don’t like African Americans)
I think all African American woman should just leave
American men alone forever, then they will be happy,
like my wife. There is literally nothing she can not
have nor anything I will not do for her.”

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There are more of us

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White man and I find the features and curves of African American women to be extremely attractive. There are more of us than most people have been led to believe.”

The first girl to ever pay attention to me

A beautiful young educated Black woman

“When I first got to high school in 67 it was an urban school. I attended all-white schools since Kindergarten, but everyone went there for high school. It was 60/40 Black/White. I was a shy kid and struck out with White girls – most of whom weren’t very nice to me (it was the sixties and if you weren’t in with the cool crowd you were kept outside. The first girl to ever pay attention to me, and flirted with me was Black. I think I was 14 or 15, and she was very nice, and made me feel worthwhile – I mean she thought I was good looking and talked to me as if I had value as a human being – no White girl ever talked to me like that. I wish I had the courage then to ask her out (as I said I was shy and I didn’t have the wherewithal to buck societal prejudices and my family then (OK I was a coward) – both of which I regret very much today). It took me a few years to work up to dating Black women (by the time I reached my early twenties I was fearless), and for me it always was a far better experience than the White women I dated or was in relationships with over the years – acceptance of me, no judgements, a willingness to share interests. Love is love; I just know for me I want to find my soul mate and I want her to be Black. I’m not sure if I explained this well at all but I felt the need to say something. I hope everyone here meets their true love.”

We’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away

A beautiful Black woman

“The media is a large purveyor of the bs, definitely. But to be fair regarding Black Woman’s almost necessity to show initial interest, keep in mind that many Asian guys have almost zero confidence in their looks because of the many years of racial abuse & media bashing that Asian men have taken. We’re not so quick to approach Black women immediately because we’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away.”

Married to a beautiful Black queen

Married interracial Asian man Black woman couple

“I understand how you feel cause I’m a Filipino American married to a beautiful Black queen and we get those nasty looks but I don’t give a F*** what anyone thinks cause she’s my love.”

Treat them as women

A beautiful Black woman with a flower in her hair

“As a European myself, I think we don’t obsess about race in the manner American White men do; if we see a sexy Black women, we view her more in terms of sexy than necessarily Black. Similarly, I’ve also noticed that African-American women are more suspicious of dating White men than Caribbean or African women, primarily due to this fixation on race. Yet as others have noted, when we European men chat with African-American women about things in general rather than focusing on race, the ice breaks. Needless to add, I’ve also been surpirsed by how many Black ladies like blonds, at least here in NYC; it seems that you need only treat them as women, instead of some exotic sex toy.”

I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures

A beautiful Black woman rocking her natural hair

“Hispanic guy…dates Black girl…fake hair big turn off? I am a Hispanic male (of White race), however the race I am more attracted to are African American girls, but I think fake hair is a big turn off. I know not all Black girls wear fake hair, but the ones I’ve met did. (I never said a thing though, but still I wanted to). I’m dating right now, how can I let the girl know, without me sounding too racial or like a total jerk, that this is a turn off for me. I’m afraid what she might think…maybe she’ll get offended? Idk?”
Updates: “That’s cool, I don’t mind natural hair styles or textures…I think they are all unique and beautiful.”
“I once told a female friend that she looked better without her wig that she used to wear everyday but she didn’t agree, she said she felt more confident with it. So I said -ok however you feel more confortable- and she told me it wasn’t confortable…it’s weird, I just don’t understand….lol”