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Getting up the courage to approach Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m one of those White guys that stares and smiles at Black girls/women like you. Why don’t (some of us, at least) get up the courage to approach girls/women like you? I suspect that it has something to do with the fact that while we may be attracted to Black girls/women, while we may, indeed, have African American coworkers that we’re on good terms with and while we more than likely daily interact with other Black folk in a variety of other settings, we don’t actually have any African American friends. And in not having those friends, we’re, well, uncertain as to how to approach someone from that group. Afraid, perhaps, that we might say or do something that somehow comes across as stereotyping in nature or otherwise insensitive. Afraid, too, perhaps of being too White (whatever that might be). Those are my ideas, at least. And something that I definitely need to work on, because, quite frankly, I find most of the Black women that I meet these days far more attractive than any others. Enough of my babble…”

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There are more of us

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White man and I find the features and curves of African American women to be extremely attractive. There are more of us than most people have been led to believe.”

The first girl to ever pay attention to me

A beautiful young educated Black woman

“When I first got to high school in 67 it was an urban school. I attended all-white schools since Kindergarten, but everyone went there for high school. It was 60/40 Black/White. I was a shy kid and struck out with White girls – most of whom weren’t very nice to me (it was the sixties and if you weren’t in with the cool crowd you were kept outside. The first girl to ever pay attention to me, and flirted with me was Black. I think I was 14 or 15, and she was very nice, and made me feel worthwhile – I mean she thought I was good looking and talked to me as if I had value as a human being – no White girl ever talked to me like that. I wish I had the courage then to ask her out (as I said I was shy and I didn’t have the wherewithal to buck societal prejudices and my family then (OK I was a coward) – both of which I regret very much today). It took me a few years to work up to dating Black women (by the time I reached my early twenties I was fearless), and for me it always was a far better experience than the White women I dated or was in relationships with over the years – acceptance of me, no judgements, a willingness to share interests. Love is love; I just know for me I want to find my soul mate and I want her to be Black. I’m not sure if I explained this well at all but I felt the need to say something. I hope everyone here meets their true love.”

We’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away

A beautiful Black woman

“The media is a large purveyor of the bs, definitely. But to be fair regarding Black Woman’s almost necessity to show initial interest, keep in mind that many Asian guys have almost zero confidence in their looks because of the many years of racial abuse & media bashing that Asian men have taken. We’re not so quick to approach Black women immediately because we’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away.”

Some like it HOT

A beautiful and hot Black woman

“Have just discovered American girls and can say as a British White man Black American girls are hot”
“Black women are sizzling hot”
“I am White, and I personally think Black women are very attractive. I would marry one in a hot minute.”
“YOU African guys can have all the White hoes………….I will take a Black woman anyday…….they are so hot…………….. oh yes………………built like a brick house……………………………”
“Damn Black women are so f*ing hot”
“As a White man (English) I love Black women, they’re hot as hell! VERY ATTRACTIVE!!”
“BW are hot hot hot 🙂 “
“Black ladies are so sexy, so beautiful, and so hot mmmm very hot”
“I’m Asian and I love when Black girls clap at every word when they want to make a point. So hot.”
” OMG Black women are so damn hot!!!”
“Black women…. HOT. AS. HELL”
“I just want Black women all over the world to know, you ladies are hot and I love you.”
“I need and want a hot Black woman in my life 😉 “
“Life on this planet would be boring as hell if it weren’t for all the hot Black women on it. That’s the damn TRUTH!”

Married to a beautiful Black queen

Married interracial Asian man Black woman couple

“I understand how you feel cause I’m a Filipino American married to a beautiful Black queen and we get those nasty looks but I don’t give a F*** what anyone thinks cause she’s my love.”

Treat them as women

A beautiful Black woman with a flower in her hair

“As a European myself, I think we don’t obsess about race in the manner American White men do; if we see a sexy Black women, we view her more in terms of sexy than necessarily Black. Similarly, I’ve also noticed that African-American women are more suspicious of dating White men than Caribbean or African women, primarily due to this fixation on race. Yet as others have noted, when we European men chat with African-American women about things in general rather than focusing on race, the ice breaks. Needless to add, I’ve also been surpirsed by how many Black ladies like blonds, at least here in NYC; it seems that you need only treat them as women, instead of some exotic sex toy.”