Tag Archive | marriage

He’s a keeper or a creeper

A beautiful Black woman

“BW there are alot of White guys out there, that only want to try it out!! So don’t rush into things, just take your time and you will know if he’s a keeper or a creeper. I absolutely love my gf and been together for about 3 yrs and I know we’ll get married. Yeah so BW take your time and be patient”

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I just see her as a woman

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White guy. I’m married to a Black woman. We’ve been married almost 10 years. For me, race isn’t important. I don’t see my wife as a Black woman; I just see her as a woman – my woman. I really don’t think about it and neither does she. It doesn’t occur to us that we’re still outside the mainstream or not a “normal” couple. We really don’t think about being an interracial couple until someone brings it to our attention, then I look at her and think “oh yeah, that’s right; you’re Black!” LOL. The color of our skin seems to be way more important to other people than it is to us. I think way too many people focus on skin color. If we truly were all equal and we were all unprejudiced, then this wouldn’t even be a topic for discussion in this day and age. But, the fact that we’re still debating this just shows that people have a long way to go in living with and loving their fellow man.”

Marriages like ours are the most successful

A married BW/WM interracial couple celebrating with champagne

“White man here..WM/BW marriages like ours are the most successful and enduring across all the romantic spectrum..I guess this makes some folks sick with envy.”

Black women make yourself happy and follow your heart and dreams

Black women follow your heart and dreams

“I am a White guy, and I agree with Roberts comment. The Black guys that spew hate and try so hard to convince Black women (especially Black women with a darker complexion), that no one wants them just have an alterior motive. Half of those guys probably don’t even have jobs which is why they have so much time on their hands to make You Tube videos and post hate filled messages. They are against White men dating Black women, but when it comes to Black men dating White women they are quiet and they don’t have anything to say. These men would rather see an educated attractive Black woman grow old by herself and die alone. Women wake up. This type of Black men just wants a successful Black women around to pay his bills whe he sits around and does nothing. You as a person have to look out for yourself first and not care about what anyone else thinks. Make yourself happy and follow your heart and dreams. In this day and age I don’t understand why people (especially Black men) get so worked up over Black women dating White men. I think Black women are beautiful. My wife (who I have been happily married to for 9 years) is a beautiful dark complected Black woman. She is my world and she uplifts, loves, and encourages me in a way that no other woman I dated in the past could come close to. Love is love, and there are more important things in life than worrying about who complete strangers are dating.”

A cold day in hell

BWWM interracial couple dancing

“My wife and I get stares and comments like that from random strangers as well (from both sides Black and White), but in the end who gives a damn what they think. Either you let em make you miserable or you can hold your head high and just be happy with who your with (if you love them). Don’t get me wrong I know it can be trying, but it would be a cold day in hell before I allowed the stares and whispers of the small minded fools to keep me from going out in public with my wife.”

What are you doing with her?

A BW/WM interracial couple

“I am a White man married to a beautiful Black woman. I had the other day a White woman ask me “What are you doing with her?” (Meaning my wife.) My reply to the White woman was: “What do you think a Husband and a WIFE do with each other?” She just stood there for a long time, and then walked off. I walked after this woman who asked the question and told her something to chew on for awhile: “I feel whether this country wants to admit it or not they have not seen how European men of the past history in this country, have put White women on a Pedestal. Well my White sister you have been dethroned, and all women should be there not just you.” That pissed her off more, and I was happy I did tick her off. She had no right asking such a question. Oh and the last I knew White isn’t a race just a color, but Black has been associated with race. Seem’s Europeans have some explaining to do since they have created this dilima, and monopoly on race. Damn Bastardized English Language.”

I am really fascinated by Black women

White man Black woman interracial couple

“Since I can think of I am really fascinated by Black women. Here in Germany, I grew up in a region with not so many Black women, and I don’t really am attracted to the local White women there. From very early on I decided that I will have a Black wife day. Not only that I really want to have mixed babies, I just adore the way of walking and the body language. Black women just have an amazing grace by doing anything. It’s hard to describe. I wish so much to find a serious, honest and reliable woman to marry and to have a big family with.”