Tag Archive | love black women

If a guy takes the time to get to know you

BWWM interracial couple dating

“I agree v much with Dean. Most White guys are not aggressive in the dating world, and do very much try to be proper and respectful. Compliments are hard to express sometimes…just because we don’t say you are gorgeous, doesn’t mean we don’t think it…and we fear the repercussion of appearing to look at Black women only as sex objects. We need a sign, like Dean said. A longer look and a smile go a long way…for all we know, you have no interest in White men. Do have faith, young lady, that there are good..and good looking White men out there who are attracted very much to women of color. I met my lovely chocolate lady at work…we struck up a friendship…and when I asked her if she’d ever date a White guy, she told me she did before and he was the best boyfriend ever. Long story short, when I eventually asked her if she’d ever consider dating ME, she was completely floored…she had no idea I actually was attracted to her. Moral, if a guy takes the time to get to know you and you enjoy each others company…he may be attracted to you and just doesn’t know how to approach you. I’m confident you will find your vanilla man.”

The ONLY people who give us grief

Young BWWM interracial couple

“Same thing happened to me. Every single time I date a Black woman virtually the ONLY people who give us grief about it are Black men. You’d think in Alabama there would be a few White racists making noise but with the exception of one old coot muttering a slur under his breath when we passed him at the mall the only people harassing us were Black men. The girl I dated in high school’s brother gave her shit about dating a White boy 24/7 even while he had a White girlfriend of his own. It makes me very uncomfortable to make any kind of blanket statement like this, but there honestly seemed to be some expectation that Black women had to wait for Black men, but Black men could date anyone they wanted.”

I only date Black women

Attractive BWAM couple

“I guess I am in a category of my own. I’m conservative and quiet (far from being urban) however, I only date Black women.”

Don’t think you can’t find love in another race

BW/WM interracial couple sharing a soft kiss

“I’m a half German half Puerto Rican man. I am married to a very dark African American woman. I love her dearly. We have been always there for each other. I’m not trying to be biased, but every White woman I’ve ever dated jumps ship as soon as the tough gets going. I’ve dated waaaaaaaaaay more White women than Black. Honestly I don’t see color, but I’ve been with my Black wife for 11 years, 9 of them married. We are happy so don’t think you can’t find love in another race. I’ve done it…..”

What are you doing with her?

A BW/WM interracial couple

“I am a White man married to a beautiful Black woman. I had the other day a White woman ask me “What are you doing with her?” (Meaning my wife.) My reply to the White woman was: “What do you think a Husband and a WIFE do with each other?” She just stood there for a long time, and then walked off. I walked after this woman who asked the question and told her something to chew on for awhile: “I feel whether this country wants to admit it or not they have not seen how European men of the past history in this country, have put White women on a Pedestal. Well my White sister you have been dethroned, and all women should be there not just you.” That pissed her off more, and I was happy I did tick her off. She had no right asking such a question. Oh and the last I knew White isn’t a race just a color, but Black has been associated with race. Seem’s Europeans have some explaining to do since they have created this dilima, and monopoly on race. Damn Bastardized English Language.”

I find Black women maddeningly attractive

Beautiful Black woman smiling

It’s something about them that drives me crazy.
“Yes, I am an Indian who has never left India. And NO, my opinion is not based on Black women I see in movies or television. I spent 3 years in Goa, and I came across so many gorgeous Black women. (“Gorgeous” here doesn’t mean “slim” or “shapely”. I refer to the whole personality.) Shape and size really doesn’t matter. In fact, speaking on a strictly physical level, I think many Black women have large butts in proportion to their bodies. And that’s REALLY hot!!! But like I said, that’s not the only reason I find Black women maddeningly attractive. It’s something. Something I can’t put my finger on.”

Don’t let anyone stop you from liking or loving a Black woman

Attractive Black woman White man interracial couple

“Feel free to date a Black woman she will appreciate you being her fiancé and her husband in the future. Don’t let anyone or anything stop you from liking or loving a Black woman. As long as you have true love for each other. With God’s love. Nothing or no one will not pull you apart from each other. In time you will see or have a better understand what I am saying to you on here. Stay encourage and be positive. Ignore negativity, rumors and lies with deception. Action speaks louder than words. If you want to get to know a Black woman. By knowing the facts about her you have to spend quality time with Black woman alone. Treat her like a lady by being a true gentleman to her and being faithful in a time of need by comforting her with your arms. Expressing your emotions to her by letting her know you are real with her. It should work on both sides of the fence.”