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Scare Tactics: They won’t marry you!! They’re just going to use you for sex!! Married to a Black woman WMBW edition Part 1

Beautiful Black bride

1. “I love Black women. I have dated Black women, and I am married to a very beautiful dark Black woman.”
2. “My wife is Black and I’m White, and we run into ignorant people on occasion, also. Unfortunately, there are still people out there who just don’t get that we love each other and don’t care what they think. But that’s their problem, not ours. 🙂 “
3. “Married to my Ebony Queen for 17yrs. no one ever has ever challenged my choice of Wife, because I gave of a vibe of “Don’t F with me” (What my Wife says anyway) The only challenges received came only from My Mother. LOL. No one else ever dared to say anything to my face. I am not having that!!!!!!!!!!!”
4. “I see my wife’s different colour as one of the many things I love about her. Seeing her dark chocolate fingers In my pale one’s always puts a smile on my face and it my heart.”
5. “I am with you +marleygirl I am a White guy married to a Black woman and our whole families get along with each other.”
6. “Oh yea I forgot I am White and MARRIED my Black wife.”
7. “This is me and my wife.  I’m not with her because she is Black.  I am with her because I love her.  Love is color blind.  I have been with White, Black, Hispanic, etc.  You name it.  I think that the reason why some of us gravitate towards certain cultures is due to our upbringing.  I feel more home among her family than I do families of others I have been with.  Our personalities match better than any of the other relationships I have been in.  I love this woman….till death do us apart!”
8. “I am a White man and me consider Black women so beautiful, thats why I am married with my Black princess, I love my Black beautiful wife”
9. “I am White Irish/English (so I was told) and my wife is Black. I have dated many races and yet married a Black woman. Love has no Boundaries and racism is just fear and ignorance. I have had more negative attitudes from Black men then anyone concerning our relationship though.”

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Go out and let go of stereotypes

A beautiful Black woman

“I find Black girls very attractive but what I find most attractive is their perspective in life and their inner beauty. Being a White suburban raised male, I was raised to fear the unknown and to stay with like minded people. However after I took the initiative to break out of that shell, I learned that women, especially those who were different than me, had a different view on the world. They also understood my view since my view is seen all the time in the media. This perspective and intelligence has been very attractive to me. It helps balance between my views so that a better truth can be found of myself and the world around me. To those like me interested in dating Black women, relax and be yourself. Forget about stereotypes because once you date as many women as I have, you will learn that each individual regardless of appearance is very different from one another. There are similarities in groups, and then there are differences and uniqueness. Go out and let go of stereotypes and engage your dates with curiosity, innocence, and genuine interest.”

Marriages like ours are the most successful

A married BW/WM interracial couple celebrating with champagne

“White man here..WM/BW marriages like ours are the most successful and enduring across all the romantic spectrum..I guess this makes some folks sick with envy.”

Black women are by far the MOST BEAUTIFUL

A beautiful and elegant Black woman

“I think women of all races are beautiful. In my opinion, however, Black women are by far the MOST BEAUTIFUL. I love everything about them. I love how their eyes sparkle when they smile; I love their Kissable lips; I love their independent thinking; I love their genuine modesty about how gorgeous they are; I love it when they are creative with their hair (and let it go natural!); I love their gorgeous feminine figures; I love their beautiful dark skin. I love their sweet personalities. I love their creativity; I love their ability to love unconditionally, and only ask that you meet them half-way; I could go on and on. What I really dislike is how misunderstood, underappreciated, and forgotten they are in many societies. I will never understand why so many false stereotypes about Black women are still perpetuated. I just don’t get it. That strikes me as being so unfair and so absolutely false. Sometimes, I do not know how these lovely women can continually put up with such ignorance. I guess that is THE MOST attractive thing about them. They have an incredible capacity to LOVE AND TO FORGIVE !! That is such an admirable attribute. Most of the Black women I know are so extremely dedicated, loving, giving, spiritual, honest, and trustworthy. Their Inner Beauty is limitless. Their outer Beauty simple Breathtaking. They deserve so much more. They deserve to be loved and adored wihtout limits. To all of you gorgeous Black women out there – You Are Truly Beautiful In So Many, Many Ways. I admire you for never giving in to the false hated that is out there. You are the epitome of what a woman can be. I am looking for my One True Soulmate, and A Higher Power seems to be indicating to me that she is a beautiful woman of color. How fortunate I will be when I meet her. It will be My Honor and My Privledge to give to HER all of my love; my entire heart and being; my total trust and loyalty; my very soul.”

Black women have the best personalities of all women

A beautiful Black woman deep in thought

“I personally think that WM need to get this stereotype out of their heads because from my experiences BW are very open to IR dating and they love it! I work in a downtown office building and when I’m out and about on my lunch breaks I always see BW checking me out and YES I smile and chat with them even if its only for a few minutes. The stereotype that BW are mean and have attitude is so far from the truth. I have never met a BW who wasn’t engaging, friendly, and personable. BW are beautiful, have a great sense of style & fashion, and they have the best personalities of all women.”

The fear of rejection

A beautiful Black woman out on a date with a handsome White man

“I am White and think Black women are very attractive. Many White guys find Black women sexy. White guys don’t like to feel rejected so they don’t approach a Black lady for fear of rejection. Let a White Guy know you are comfortable around him and are ok with him being White and he will want to date you.”

I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m a male Mexican from San Antonio Texas which is predominantly Mexican. I was married a Mexican woman for 15 years. We separated and got a divorce 3 years ago. When I started dating, I decided I wanted to experience and date out of my race, so I dated Asian, Middle Eastern, White, Caribbean, and other Latin woman. I love all woman, but the last person I dated was a Black female. It wasn’t because she was my last choice, it just happened that way. Well let’s put it this way, I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her, I am in love and plan on asking her to marry me very soon, as she can’t wait for me to ask her and can’t wait to make beautiful children. I live in Northern VA/ DC area and I notice the looks but it doesn’t bother me. We get along great and took her down to San Antonio and my family liked her, and for those that live down there that can be very difficult. I don’t see or haven’t seen a lot of Latin men with Black woman, but I will tell you she was my first and I love me some Black women. Just for the record I consider myself good looking and I have no problem attracting woman especially my own kind and I do get flirted with on purpose when I’m with her by both Black woman and Latin woman, it’s crazy it’s like a competition. Latin woman look at it like oh what does she have that I don’t, and a Black woman is like ohhhh he likes Black woman let me show him some more… But I love my woman She does her thing!”