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What do African American ladies think of White European men?

A beautiful Black woman

1. “What do African American ladies think of White European men? Would you date a European?
I’m curious as to how women of color, and in particular African American women, view White European men. Would you be open to dating White men from European countries? Why or why not? What, if anything, attracts you to White European men?”
2. “Do Black American women like White European men and what do Black American women think of them, like do they have any stereotypes about them or something like that?”
3. “How do African-American/Black women feel about Nordic (European) men?
Hi, I’m a Nordic man with light features (blue eyes, blond hair), and I wonder how you ladies of colour in the US view someone like me. I find a lot of Black girls/women physically attractive. I like curves and I like the skin. I also think afros look nice on many girls.
I’ve known some African-American girls and they seemed nice.”

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There are more of us

A beautiful Black woman White man interracial couple

“I’m a White man and I find the features and curves of African American women to be extremely attractive. There are more of us than most people have been led to believe.”

For me Black girl is very exotic

A beautiful Black woman

“I can tell you from European pov… In my life I saw few Black people (only males) in person, I live in most of the whitest countries on earth… For me Black girl is very exotic, I would like to hang out with one, it’s interesting to meet someone from totally different cultural background.”

The first girl to ever pay attention to me

A beautiful young educated Black woman

“When I first got to high school in 67 it was an urban school. I attended all-white schools since Kindergarten, but everyone went there for high school. It was 60/40 Black/White. I was a shy kid and struck out with White girls – most of whom weren’t very nice to me (it was the sixties and if you weren’t in with the cool crowd you were kept outside. The first girl to ever pay attention to me, and flirted with me was Black. I think I was 14 or 15, and she was very nice, and made me feel worthwhile – I mean she thought I was good looking and talked to me as if I had value as a human being – no White girl ever talked to me like that. I wish I had the courage then to ask her out (as I said I was shy and I didn’t have the wherewithal to buck societal prejudices and my family then (OK I was a coward) – both of which I regret very much today). It took me a few years to work up to dating Black women (by the time I reached my early twenties I was fearless), and for me it always was a far better experience than the White women I dated or was in relationships with over the years – acceptance of me, no judgements, a willingness to share interests. Love is love; I just know for me I want to find my soul mate and I want her to be Black. I’m not sure if I explained this well at all but I felt the need to say something. I hope everyone here meets their true love.”

We’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away

A beautiful Black woman

“The media is a large purveyor of the bs, definitely. But to be fair regarding Black Woman’s almost necessity to show initial interest, keep in mind that many Asian guys have almost zero confidence in their looks because of the many years of racial abuse & media bashing that Asian men have taken. We’re not so quick to approach Black women immediately because we’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away.”

Marriages like ours are the most successful

A married BW/WM interracial couple celebrating with champagne

“White man here..WM/BW marriages like ours are the most successful and enduring across all the romantic spectrum..I guess this makes some folks sick with envy.”

I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m a male Mexican from San Antonio Texas which is predominantly Mexican. I was married a Mexican woman for 15 years. We separated and got a divorce 3 years ago. When I started dating, I decided I wanted to experience and date out of my race, so I dated Asian, Middle Eastern, White, Caribbean, and other Latin woman. I love all woman, but the last person I dated was a Black female. It wasn’t because she was my last choice, it just happened that way. Well let’s put it this way, I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her, I am in love and plan on asking her to marry me very soon, as she can’t wait for me to ask her and can’t wait to make beautiful children. I live in Northern VA/ DC area and I notice the looks but it doesn’t bother me. We get along great and took her down to San Antonio and my family liked her, and for those that live down there that can be very difficult. I don’t see or haven’t seen a lot of Latin men with Black woman, but I will tell you she was my first and I love me some Black women. Just for the record I consider myself good looking and I have no problem attracting woman especially my own kind and I do get flirted with on purpose when I’m with her by both Black woman and Latin woman, it’s crazy it’s like a competition. Latin woman look at it like oh what does she have that I don’t, and a Black woman is like ohhhh he likes Black woman let me show him some more… But I love my woman She does her thing!”