Tag Archive | how do I approach black american women?

There are more of us

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“I’m a White man and I find the features and curves of African American women to be extremely attractive. There are more of us than most people have been led to believe.”

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We’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away

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“The media is a large purveyor of the bs, definitely. But to be fair regarding Black Woman’s almost necessity to show initial interest, keep in mind that many Asian guys have almost zero confidence in their looks because of the many years of racial abuse & media bashing that Asian men have taken. We’re not so quick to approach Black women immediately because we’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away.”

The fear of rejection

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“I am White and think Black women are very attractive. Many White guys find Black women sexy. White guys don’t like to feel rejected so they don’t approach a Black lady for fear of rejection. Let a White Guy know you are comfortable around him and are ok with him being White and he will want to date you.”

Treat them as women

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“As a European myself, I think we don’t obsess about race in the manner American White men do; if we see a sexy Black women, we view her more in terms of sexy than necessarily Black. Similarly, I’ve also noticed that African-American women are more suspicious of dating White men than Caribbean or African women, primarily due to this fixation on race. Yet as others have noted, when we European men chat with African-American women about things in general rather than focusing on race, the ice breaks. Needless to add, I’ve also been surpirsed by how many Black ladies like blonds, at least here in NYC; it seems that you need only treat them as women, instead of some exotic sex toy.”

Black women in your country face such scrutiny

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“There is a huge double standard @The Truth Hurts in the black community in your country as to who is allowed to date other colors (we are all the same race). Black women in your country face such scrutiny when she dates a blond Germanic like myself, and even her “blackness” or loyalty to her “people” is called into question just for being with whitey. But a Black guy can date every fat, redneck the South has to offer or every white porn star/stripper in the U.S. and he still is considered just as “Black” as he was when he knocked up the Black chic. In Europe where I am from (northern Europe), most Black women date outside and not many European women like dark men–England being the exception. Caribbean chics like White males too….it is only a female double standard here in the States!”