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Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Deux

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@Allie8_79  “…some Black men’s strategy is to talk Black women down to their non-Black friends and generally discourage IRR between BW and non-BM so that they can keep BW for themselves all the while dating out for as long as they can…”
“Oh yeah. There was a young Black woman I liked during high school [mid-70s], and I was good friends with her [male] cousin. I figured, “hey he can put in a good word for me, ensure her folks that I am a straight up guy and come from a good family, etc” As I learned much later, what a mistake. He told me that “she’s just that friendly with everyone so don’t read too much into that. And, I know she’s only interested in Black men because she told me.” What he said was pretty convincing, so I moved on. Fast forward three decades, and at a reunion…the first time we had seen each other since high school. We picked up like it was yesterday. We both wanted to talk about how we felt about each other. I told her how I had felt about her, and she asked why I didn’t pursue her. I told her what her cousin had told me. She was really mad at her cousin [who had died 2 years  earlier], because none of what he told me was true. She said even her dad [no-nonsense US Navy man] liked me, which would have been half the battle. Since we were both there with our spouses, we couldn’t just run out of there, but we thought about it (LOL j/k) I did get to meet her husband, a really nice Cuban guy. So at least she did all right in the relationship department [and he’s probably a better dancer than me too!]”

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I have to put on the boxing gloves

A White man embracing a Black woman

“I get so much shit just because I say I like Black women. I get messages on here talking shit and I hear it in person. It’s funny on youtube, it’s mostly Black men messaging me talking shit. In person it is White men. SMH, it gets annoying sometimes if I say I like any other race of women it is acceptable. If I say I like Black women, I have to put on the boxing gloves.”

Me dating or marrying a Black woman is not bringing dishonor to the family

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m an Asian man and I love Black women. I LOVE THEM!!! Asian men need to stop being cowards and start dating these beauties. I married my Black girlfriend. My wife is the best thing thats ever happened to me. We had alot of oppositions and issues from my side of the family. Mostly my mom and sisters…BTW both of my sisters are in interracial relationships. One with a White guy and the other with a Black one. Ain’t that some bullshit?! Asian families need to let their sons grow up and be men. Let them live THEIR lives. It’s MY choice. Me dating or marrying a Black woman is not bringing dishonor to the family. You being a hypocrite and a racist is.”

You’re never too old to find love

Older  interracial couple

“I met a Black lady on line 2 years ago. We were married 6 months ago. She moved from the Seattle Wa. area to my area a town of 3,000 people. She is a queen my family members love her as well as my friends. We are both senior citizens and are living our retirements having a good time. I just wished we met several years ago. But things happen for a reason.”

What if?

Intelligent Black woman studying

“Back when I was in high school and college, I have quite a few Black friends and I always think they are beautiful and I wanted to date them but I always afraid to ask them. Because I am Asian, I worry that they would laugh at me. Now, I wish that we still kept in touch but we didn’t. I always think, if I had married to one of them, then, how is my life would turn out to be?”

My preference

Beautiful Black woman being embraced by a handsome Asian man

“I am an Asian man from Brooklyn, NY and have been dating Black women all my life. That is my preference. It’s become such a non-factor in my life because all my friends and family are so used to it they never give it a second thought, nor I. So when I see how uncommon it is in other parts of America, I forget that it’s not an everyday occurrence. Well, I’m glad that you and some other Black ladies are speaking out on it and saying positive things.”

Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers

Attractive Black woman

“More White guys like Black girls than you realize. It’s the people around White guys that holds them back. If a White guy says he likes a Black girl or is attracted to cute Black girls, White girls ridicule him for it. Even other stupid White guys will ridicule him for it. That’s my experience anyway. Anyway, trust me. We want you! ;)”