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Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Deux

Beautifulblackwoman46

@Allie8_79  “…some Black men’s strategy is to talk Black women down to their non-Black friends and generally discourage IRR between BW and non-BM so that they can keep BW for themselves all the while dating out for as long as they can…”
“Oh yeah. There was a young Black woman I liked during high school [mid-70s], and I was good friends with her [male] cousin. I figured, “hey he can put in a good word for me, ensure her folks that I am a straight up guy and come from a good family, etc” As I learned much later, what a mistake. He told me that “she’s just that friendly with everyone so don’t read too much into that. And, I know she’s only interested in Black men because she told me.” What he said was pretty convincing, so I moved on. Fast forward three decades, and at a reunion…the first time we had seen each other since high school. We picked up like it was yesterday. We both wanted to talk about how we felt about each other. I told her how I had felt about her, and she asked why I didn’t pursue her. I told her what her cousin had told me. She was really mad at her cousin [who had died 2 years  earlier], because none of what he told me was true. She said even her dad [no-nonsense US Navy man] liked me, which would have been half the battle. Since we were both there with our spouses, we couldn’t just run out of there, but we thought about it (LOL j/k) I did get to meet her husband, a really nice Cuban guy. So at least she did all right in the relationship department [and he’s probably a better dancer than me too!]”

Can I honestly say I lived life the way I wanted to?

Black woman White man interracial couple

“I love Black women they don’t get near the credit for their beauty as they should. I knew that I was attracted to a Black woman when I was just a kid, for some reason they liked me to. But growing up I was taught this was not acceptable. One day I realized that all the ppl that were against interracial relationships don’t pay any of my bills and when my time here is up can I honestly say I lived life the way I wanted to? The answer was no I couldn’t. So I said to hell with what everyone else thought, I have been with a Black woman ever since… I’m also now married to a Black woman, yes we get stared at all the time but hey we don’t care it’s our lives those ppl don’t lay down with either one of us. So my advise to all you White men that are afraid of what others will think. (To hell with those ppl) Do you, be happy with yourselves don’t hide who you are because of what others might think or say…ay”

Her beauty comes from within

A beautiful Black woman wearing a gold dress

“Some of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen have been dark skin women. A woman’s beauty doesn’t reside in her skin color or in a pretty face or a great body. Her beauty comes from within. A truly beautiful woman has a light that shines from within her that is so bright that even the most blind fools can see.”

What’s the deal?

A beautiful Black woman reading a book

Do Black girls like Hispanic men?
“Interracial dating is more common, but I hardly see a Black girl with a Hispanic guy. I myself am looking for one. I would like a girl’s opinion about this. What’s the deal? Do you ladies like us Hispanic guys? To make things clear, many Hispanic guys take a second look at a cute Black girl that walks by except that most of us think that they wouldn’t give us the time of day. Come on Black ladies give us some feedback”

I have to put on the boxing gloves

A White man embracing a Black woman

“I get so much shit just because I say I like Black women. I get messages on here talking shit and I hear it in person. It’s funny on youtube, it’s mostly Black men messaging me talking shit. In person it is White men. SMH, it gets annoying sometimes if I say I like any other race of women it is acceptable. If I say I like Black women, I have to put on the boxing gloves.”

I wanted more

A young Black woman graduating

“No lie I’m a shy guy my self I’m Korean and I luv Black girls shit, I luv em more then Asian girls and yeah there was this Black girl in my class, my sophmore year (I’m a senior in high school) nd I had a crush on her and I haven’t talked to her ever since, and then she approched me on our senior year and u kno we talked nd now wer like best friends 4 ever. I wanted more but she said shes doesn’t want to be in a relationship rite now. nd yeah were like “going out” but not really”

What are you doing with her?

A BW/WM interracial couple

“I am a White man married to a beautiful Black woman. I had the other day a White woman ask me “What are you doing with her?” (Meaning my wife.) My reply to the White woman was: “What do you think a Husband and a WIFE do with each other?” She just stood there for a long time, and then walked off. I walked after this woman who asked the question and told her something to chew on for awhile: “I feel whether this country wants to admit it or not they have not seen how European men of the past history in this country, have put White women on a Pedestal. Well my White sister you have been dethroned, and all women should be there not just you.” That pissed her off more, and I was happy I did tick her off. She had no right asking such a question. Oh and the last I knew White isn’t a race just a color, but Black has been associated with race. Seem’s Europeans have some explaining to do since they have created this dilima, and monopoly on race. Damn Bastardized English Language.”