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Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Deux

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@Allie8_79  “…some Black men’s strategy is to talk Black women down to their non-Black friends and generally discourage IRR between BW and non-BM so that they can keep BW for themselves all the while dating out for as long as they can…”
“Oh yeah. There was a young Black woman I liked during high school [mid-70s], and I was good friends with her [male] cousin. I figured, “hey he can put in a good word for me, ensure her folks that I am a straight up guy and come from a good family, etc” As I learned much later, what a mistake. He told me that “she’s just that friendly with everyone so don’t read too much into that. And, I know she’s only interested in Black men because she told me.” What he said was pretty convincing, so I moved on. Fast forward three decades, and at a reunion…the first time we had seen each other since high school. We picked up like it was yesterday. We both wanted to talk about how we felt about each other. I told her how I had felt about her, and she asked why I didn’t pursue her. I told her what her cousin had told me. She was really mad at her cousin [who had died 2 years  earlier], because none of what he told me was true. She said even her dad [no-nonsense US Navy man] liked me, which would have been half the battle. Since we were both there with our spouses, we couldn’t just run out of there, but we thought about it (LOL j/k) I did get to meet her husband, a really nice Cuban guy. So at least she did all right in the relationship department [and he’s probably a better dancer than me too!]”

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I have to put on the boxing gloves

A White man embracing a Black woman

“I get so much shit just because I say I like Black women. I get messages on here talking shit and I hear it in person. It’s funny on youtube, it’s mostly Black men messaging me talking shit. In person it is White men. SMH, it gets annoying sometimes if I say I like any other race of women it is acceptable. If I say I like Black women, I have to put on the boxing gloves.”

The ONLY people who give us grief

Young BWWM interracial couple

“Same thing happened to me. Every single time I date a Black woman virtually the ONLY people who give us grief about it are Black men. You’d think in Alabama there would be a few White racists making noise but with the exception of one old coot muttering a slur under his breath when we passed him at the mall the only people harassing us were Black men. The girl I dated in high school’s brother gave her shit about dating a White boy 24/7 even while he had a White girlfriend of his own. It makes me very uncomfortable to make any kind of blanket statement like this, but there honestly seemed to be some expectation that Black women had to wait for Black men, but Black men could date anyone they wanted.”

What are you doing with her?

A BW/WM interracial couple

“I am a White man married to a beautiful Black woman. I had the other day a White woman ask me “What are you doing with her?” (Meaning my wife.) My reply to the White woman was: “What do you think a Husband and a WIFE do with each other?” She just stood there for a long time, and then walked off. I walked after this woman who asked the question and told her something to chew on for awhile: “I feel whether this country wants to admit it or not they have not seen how European men of the past history in this country, have put White women on a Pedestal. Well my White sister you have been dethroned, and all women should be there not just you.” That pissed her off more, and I was happy I did tick her off. She had no right asking such a question. Oh and the last I knew White isn’t a race just a color, but Black has been associated with race. Seem’s Europeans have some explaining to do since they have created this dilima, and monopoly on race. Damn Bastardized English Language.”

Born one generation too late

A beautiful Black woman deep in thought

“I’m an Asian American male. I dated an African American female. She was perfection! I screwed it up. I can’t really blame my folks, who resisted, because they are first generation and they still have trouble with english. But it’s also a matter of cultural resonance. African Americans are more comfortable in their own skin, Asians are less so due to their confucian training…it can be intimidating. I love Black women, as gorgeous and intelligent as anyone. We were born one generation too late!”

Me dating or marrying a Black woman is not bringing dishonor to the family

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m an Asian man and I love Black women. I LOVE THEM!!! Asian men need to stop being cowards and start dating these beauties. I married my Black girlfriend. My wife is the best thing thats ever happened to me. We had alot of oppositions and issues from my side of the family. Mostly my mom and sisters…BTW both of my sisters are in interracial relationships. One with a White guy and the other with a Black one. Ain’t that some bullshit?! Asian families need to let their sons grow up and be men. Let them live THEIR lives. It’s MY choice. Me dating or marrying a Black woman is not bringing dishonor to the family. You being a hypocrite and a racist is.”

I am really fascinated by Black women

White man Black woman interracial couple

“Since I can think of I am really fascinated by Black women. Here in Germany, I grew up in a region with not so many Black women, and I don’t really am attracted to the local White women there. From very early on I decided that I will have a Black wife day. Not only that I really want to have mixed babies, I just adore the way of walking and the body language. Black women just have an amazing grace by doing anything. It’s hard to describe. I wish so much to find a serious, honest and reliable woman to marry and to have a big family with.”