Tag Archive | double standards between black men and black women

Why is this behavior so common?

Attractive Black Woman Graduate

“I am an East Indian male, professional, attractive. I consider myself a renaissance man. When I date I usually seem to attract only Caucasian women. I am however attracted to African American women too, but none of them (the educated, attractive ones) seem to date outside their race. I am not generalizing but I have found very few beautiful Black women with men of other races. It’s like “we’ve gotta support the brothas” kind of attitude. Well, as I see it the Black men certainly don’t reciprocate! Why is this behavior so common?”

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Stay calm and marry a Black girl

Attractive Black Woman Smiling

“lol, I’m a WM and I get mean mugged from White women all the time and my BW fiance gets mean mugged from both BM and WF. You definitely find out who your real friends are. Dating a Black girl is the best thing to ever happen to me and I’m enjoying the whole experience. Let them stare…I’ve struck gold. My new motto: Stay calm and marry a Black girl.”

“The Vibe”

Interracial couple Black woman White man

“As a White man I agree with you 100%. There are loads of White men out there who find Black women very attractive. The problem is that a lot of Black women, whether intentional or not, tend to give off the vibe that they’re not interested in dating outside their own race. In social settings you don’t generally see Black women mingling with men that aren’t Black etc.. And you’re also right that there are plenty of White men out there that love the curves of a Black woman. I think Black women feel a lot of pressure to date within their own race or hide their attraction to any man that isn’t Black. Well, if you are attracted to men outside your own race you should go for it. Don’t let anyone hold you back. Black men certainly don’t. Don’t allow yourself to become oppressed by a double standard. Date whoever the hell you want. It’s your life to live in and no one else’s so live it how you want to. You only get one chance.”

Take heed

A Black woman White man (BWWM/WMBW) interracial couple

“No offense Black guys but you guys love to brag so much about getting with White and every other race but your own…. Take heed cuz eventually the Black woman will eventually all start dating outside of their race too it’s only common sense…”

You have the right to choose whoever

You have the right to choose whoever you wanna be with

“Look baby. You have the right to choose whoever you wanna be with. I personally identify better with Black women because they share the same ethical values Hispanics have.”

I’m a White guy dating an awesome Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“Really enjoy your videos and blogs. I’m a White guy dating an awesome Black woman. She’s a published author of a woman’s guide book, solid Christian woman and very much a girly girl, which I love. Our relationship is characterized by mutual respect and old fashioned values. I am the gentleman that opens doors, brings flowers and pulls our her chair. She is fully capable of all things but allows me these acts because she loves them and is fully secure in herself. I want her to feel cherished and pampered.  You talk in your blog about the “stares” interracial couples get. Most of our disapproving stares seem to come from Black men. A few of these were actually with White women at the time! So too bad Black men. If you cannot or will not appreciate the awesome and wonderful Black women out there then someone else will. I love Black women and think they are among the loveliest in the world. There is nothing “manish” about my girl. She’s a petite little feminine thing that I truly adore. Makes me feel sorry for all the men out there that are missing out,,, then again,,,, NAHHHH!! 😉 “

Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Τρία(3)

Black woman White man interracial couple

“Something else is evident, Black guys getting really jealous about BW/WM. College educated BW are quickly finding out that WM with an education and a good career will put that ring on her finger and be a faithful husband.”