Tag Archive | dating and relationship advice

Go out and let go of stereotypes

A beautiful Black woman

“I find Black girls very attractive but what I find most attractive is their perspective in life and their inner beauty. Being a White suburban raised male, I was raised to fear the unknown and to stay with like minded people. However after I took the initiative to break out of that shell, I learned that women, especially those who were different than me, had a different view on the world. They also understood my view since my view is seen all the time in the media. This perspective and intelligence has been very attractive to me. It helps balance between my views so that a better truth can be found of myself and the world around me. To those like me interested in dating Black women, relax and be yourself. Forget about stereotypes because once you date as many women as I have, you will learn that each individual regardless of appearance is very different from one another. There are similarities in groups, and then there are differences and uniqueness. Go out and let go of stereotypes and engage your dates with curiosity, innocence, and genuine interest.”

I LOVE an intelligent, strong, & beautiful Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“I am Hispanic and LOVE an intelligent, strong, and beautiful Black woman. Find a Hispanic guy with good family values to marry someday. You will not regret it. A good Hispanic man will be faithful, will teach you Spanish, cook for you, take you out dancing, appreciate you, say “TE AMO” every day, be romantic, love you long after he dies, and give you beautiful mixed babies 😉 Chocolate and dulce de leche swirl. hahaha!”

He’s a keeper or a creeper

A beautiful Black woman

“BW there are alot of White guys out there, that only want to try it out!! So don’t rush into things, just take your time and you will know if he’s a keeper or a creeper. I absolutely love my gf and been together for about 3 yrs and I know we’ll get married. Yeah so BW take your time and be patient”

Getting up the courage to approach Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m one of those White guys that stares and smiles at Black girls/women like you. Why don’t (some of us, at least) get up the courage to approach girls/women like you? I suspect that it has something to do with the fact that while we may be attracted to Black girls/women, while we may, indeed, have African American coworkers that we’re on good terms with and while we more than likely daily interact with other Black folk in a variety of other settings, we don’t actually have any African American friends. And in not having those friends, we’re, well, uncertain as to how to approach someone from that group. Afraid, perhaps, that we might say or do something that somehow comes across as stereotyping in nature or otherwise insensitive. Afraid, too, perhaps of being too White (whatever that might be). Those are my ideas, at least. And something that I definitely need to work on, because, quite frankly, I find most of the Black women that I meet these days far more attractive than any others. Enough of my babble…”

Black women have the best personalities of all women

A beautiful Black woman deep in thought

“I personally think that WM need to get this stereotype out of their heads because from my experiences BW are very open to IR dating and they love it! I work in a downtown office building and when I’m out and about on my lunch breaks I always see BW checking me out and YES I smile and chat with them even if its only for a few minutes. The stereotype that BW are mean and have attitude is so far from the truth. I have never met a BW who wasn’t engaging, friendly, and personable. BW are beautiful, have a great sense of style & fashion, and they have the best personalities of all women.”

I would be honored to have a Black wife

A beautiful Black woman holding a rose bouquet

“I totally agree with the other White men. Black women are special, beautiful and sweet. White women have too much pride and want to control and cheat the men. You love your man with all your heart and that’s why we love you. You fill the man’s soul with your affection. You are true women. I would be honored to have a Black wife and I would give her all my love. Like The Lord says, I would love her like myself. But you have to be careful because not all the White men who are nice to you really love you. Unfortunately there are some White men who just want to fulfill their sexual fantasies with a Black woman. These men hate women and hate themselves because they have no love.”

The fear of rejection

A beautiful Black woman out on a date with a handsome White man

“I am White and think Black women are very attractive. Many White guys find Black women sexy. White guys don’t like to feel rejected so they don’t approach a Black lady for fear of rejection. Let a White Guy know you are comfortable around him and are ok with him being White and he will want to date you.”