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I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“I am a little late in this discussion about Asian men and Black women. I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman for almost 4 years now. There are plenty of Asian men that love Black women including myself. I think that a lot of Asian men are a bit timid when approaching Black women so for the Black women that love to date Asian men, you might have to start the conversion first. I think that Asian men that are born overseas are less likely to date Black women due to the fact that they don’t want to upset their parents but there are those that would go against tradition and go after what the desire of their hearts. I think that if a man love a woman enough, he will risk everything to be with her. After all He is the one who will be spending the rest of his life with her. Marrying my wife is the best decision that I have made next to accepting Jesus Christ into my heart. I have always had an attraction for Black women since I was in high school. Their strength and inner and outer beauty are what attracted me to them. You know what they say “One you go Black, you never go back” LOL well that is true in my case ūüôā My wife and I would love to be included in your discussion for the future. I think that a woman should not limit themselves to a certain race of men because we are all one human race with similar problems and interest and you never know who God will bring you so if you are open minded then you allow your king to find you and increase your chance of a life long happiness. Sorry I wrote such a long response but I am an advocate of interracial dating and marriage.”

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Why people shocked?

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m Chinese, what’s wrong with a Chinese guy marry a African girl? why people shocked?”

I better find myself a Black girl as well

A beautiful Black woman

“Wow, I better find myself a Black girl as well :D. I should join the trend of Chinese man marrying African woman”

You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”