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Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Deux

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@Allie8_79  “…some Black men’s strategy is to talk Black women down to their non-Black friends and generally discourage IRR between BW and non-BM so that they can keep BW for themselves all the while dating out for as long as they can…”
“Oh yeah. There was a young Black woman I liked during high school [mid-70s], and I was good friends with her [male] cousin. I figured, “hey he can put in a good word for me, ensure her folks that I am a straight up guy and come from a good family, etc” As I learned much later, what a mistake. He told me that “she’s just that friendly with everyone so don’t read too much into that. And, I know she’s only interested in Black men because she told me.” What he said was pretty convincing, so I moved on. Fast forward three decades, and at a reunion…the first time we had seen each other since high school. We picked up like it was yesterday. We both wanted to talk about how we felt about each other. I told her how I had felt about her, and she asked why I didn’t pursue her. I told her what her cousin had told me. She was really mad at her cousin [who had died 2 years  earlier], because none of what he told me was true. She said even her dad [no-nonsense US Navy man] liked me, which would have been half the battle. Since we were both there with our spouses, we couldn’t just run out of there, but we thought about it (LOL j/k) I did get to meet her husband, a really nice Cuban guy. So at least she did all right in the relationship department [and he’s probably a better dancer than me too!]”

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I wanted more

A young Black woman graduating

“No lie I’m a shy guy my self I’m Korean and I luv Black girls shit, I luv em more then Asian girls and yeah there was this Black girl in my class, my sophmore year (I’m a senior in high school) nd I had a crush on her and I haven’t talked to her ever since, and then she approched me on our senior year and u kno we talked nd now wer like best friends 4 ever. I wanted more but she said shes doesn’t want to be in a relationship rite now. nd yeah were like “going out” but not really”

A fine dark-skinned Black woman

Gorgeous dark-skinned Black woman

“Honestly, my ideal is a fine dark-skinned Black woman. I’m Rican so I know tons of girls around my way in the BX that are basically light-skinned Black, and while I appreciate their beauty, they just don’t do it for me like dark-skinned women. Dark skin on a woman just looks so pure, unblemished, uncracked. I look at the whole person, but dark skin is def. a plus.and btw, I don’t know about White men, but Latino men been had that oral thing on lock! We are very generous lovers to say the least”

The ONLY people who give us grief

Young BWWM interracial couple

“Same thing happened to me. Every single time I date a Black woman virtually the ONLY people who give us grief about it are Black men. You’d think in Alabama there would be a few White racists making noise but with the exception of one old coot muttering a slur under his breath when we passed him at the mall the only people harassing us were Black men. The girl I dated in high school’s brother gave her shit about dating a White boy 24/7 even while he had a White girlfriend of his own. It makes me very uncomfortable to make any kind of blanket statement like this, but there honestly seemed to be some expectation that Black women had to wait for Black men, but Black men could date anyone they wanted.”

If you wanna go there

A beautiful Black woman cooking a vegetarian dish

“Actually, if you wanna go there, I’ve been with my share of women of various racial backgrounds, have children with two different mothers, one is mostly Italian the other is German/Irish, I’m Chinese/Hungarian but personal hygiene is largely a “personal” issue and depends a lot on eating and grooming habits. Truth is, the “cleanest”, most pleasant smelling woman I ever dated and had sex with was a BLACK woman, maybe being a vegetarian had something to do with it. Regardless, there was no unpleasant “fishy” odor with her at all unlike some of the WHITE women I’ve been intimate with (not to mention any names).”

Cute and friendly

Gorgeous natural hair Black woman

“I always find attractive to Black girls. They are so cute and seems really friendly ^^ although hardly have a chance to meet them up in Japan.”

I only date Black women

Attractive BWAM couple

“I guess I am in a category of my own. I’m conservative and quiet (far from being urban) however, I only date Black women.”