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Black women have amazing personalities

A beautiful Black woman shares a laugh with a friend

“Preach it brother, Black women have amazing personalities always so expressive and open you tend to never need to guess around them they will tell you straight up what they think. I’m very clear about the fact that all women are different and have different personalities but I’m just speaking as a general rule on the basis of the ones I’ve only met, they all seem awesome.”

The first girl to ever pay attention to me

A beautiful young educated Black woman

“When I first got to high school in 67 it was an urban school. I attended all-white schools since Kindergarten, but everyone went there for high school. It was 60/40 Black/White. I was a shy kid and struck out with White girls – most of whom weren’t very nice to me (it was the sixties and if you weren’t in with the cool crowd you were kept outside. The first girl to ever pay attention to me, and flirted with me was Black. I think I was 14 or 15, and she was very nice, and made me feel worthwhile – I mean she thought I was good looking and talked to me as if I had value as a human being – no White girl ever talked to me like that. I wish I had the courage then to ask her out (as I said I was shy and I didn’t have the wherewithal to buck societal prejudices and my family then (OK I was a coward) – both of which I regret very much today). It took me a few years to work up to dating Black women (by the time I reached my early twenties I was fearless), and for me it always was a far better experience than the White women I dated or was in relationships with over the years – acceptance of me, no judgements, a willingness to share interests. Love is love; I just know for me I want to find my soul mate and I want her to be Black. I’m not sure if I explained this well at all but I felt the need to say something. I hope everyone here meets their true love.”

Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Deux

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@Allie8_79  “…some Black men’s strategy is to talk Black women down to their non-Black friends and generally discourage IRR between BW and non-BM so that they can keep BW for themselves all the while dating out for as long as they can…”
“Oh yeah. There was a young Black woman I liked during high school [mid-70s], and I was good friends with her [male] cousin. I figured, “hey he can put in a good word for me, ensure her folks that I am a straight up guy and come from a good family, etc” As I learned much later, what a mistake. He told me that “she’s just that friendly with everyone so don’t read too much into that. And, I know she’s only interested in Black men because she told me.” What he said was pretty convincing, so I moved on. Fast forward three decades, and at a reunion…the first time we had seen each other since high school. We picked up like it was yesterday. We both wanted to talk about how we felt about each other. I told her how I had felt about her, and she asked why I didn’t pursue her. I told her what her cousin had told me. She was really mad at her cousin [who had died 2 years  earlier], because none of what he told me was true. She said even her dad [no-nonsense US Navy man] liked me, which would have been half the battle. Since we were both there with our spouses, we couldn’t just run out of there, but we thought about it (LOL j/k) I did get to meet her husband, a really nice Cuban guy. So at least she did all right in the relationship department [and he’s probably a better dancer than me too!]”

Asian men are attracted to Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“As some troll stated, run and tell this: Asian men are attracted to Black women and it’s time you and other sad trolls understood and accepted that.”

God made Black women first, and made the rest outta what was left over!

A beautiful Black woman wearing a church hat

“God made Black women first, and made the rest outta what was left over! I’m a White guy, but I wouldn’t even consider dating, or marrying, anyone but a Black woman. Maybe I’m all wet, but I find in most Black women a great amount of inner strength yet a certain unique sensitivity or vunerablility. It’s hard to explain, but it’s there in Aces. For what ever reason, I just feel more at ease, more comfortable, with Black people in general. I’m one of only two White guys at my church of over 300, but I’m always treated as jan equal. Actually, I may get a little more attention, as folks don’t want me to feel like a minority. LOL”

We’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away

A beautiful Black woman

“The media is a large purveyor of the bs, definitely. But to be fair regarding Black Woman’s almost necessity to show initial interest, keep in mind that many Asian guys have almost zero confidence in their looks because of the many years of racial abuse & media bashing that Asian men have taken. We’re not so quick to approach Black women immediately because we’re afraid that you’ll just hate us right away.”

Black women are by far the MOST BEAUTIFUL

A beautiful and elegant Black woman

“I think women of all races are beautiful. In my opinion, however, Black women are by far the MOST BEAUTIFUL. I love everything about them. I love how their eyes sparkle when they smile; I love their Kissable lips; I love their independent thinking; I love their genuine modesty about how gorgeous they are; I love it when they are creative with their hair (and let it go natural!); I love their gorgeous feminine figures; I love their beautiful dark skin. I love their sweet personalities. I love their creativity; I love their ability to love unconditionally, and only ask that you meet them half-way; I could go on and on. What I really dislike is how misunderstood, underappreciated, and forgotten they are in many societies. I will never understand why so many false stereotypes about Black women are still perpetuated. I just don’t get it. That strikes me as being so unfair and so absolutely false. Sometimes, I do not know how these lovely women can continually put up with such ignorance. I guess that is THE MOST attractive thing about them. They have an incredible capacity to LOVE AND TO FORGIVE !! That is such an admirable attribute. Most of the Black women I know are so extremely dedicated, loving, giving, spiritual, honest, and trustworthy. Their Inner Beauty is limitless. Their outer Beauty simple Breathtaking. They deserve so much more. They deserve to be loved and adored wihtout limits. To all of you gorgeous Black women out there – You Are Truly Beautiful In So Many, Many Ways. I admire you for never giving in to the false hated that is out there. You are the epitome of what a woman can be. I am looking for my One True Soulmate, and A Higher Power seems to be indicating to me that she is a beautiful woman of color. How fortunate I will be when I meet her. It will be My Honor and My Privledge to give to HER all of my love; my entire heart and being; my total trust and loyalty; my very soul.”