Tag Archive | Black women in America

There are more of us

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“I’m a White man and I find the features and curves of African American women to be extremely attractive. There are more of us than most people have been led to believe.”

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I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her

A gorgeous Black woman

“I’m a male Mexican from San Antonio Texas which is predominantly Mexican. I was married a Mexican woman for 15 years. We separated and got a divorce 3 years ago. When I started dating, I decided I wanted to experience and date out of my race, so I dated Asian, Middle Eastern, White, Caribbean, and other Latin woman. I love all woman, but the last person I dated was a Black female. It wasn’t because she was my last choice, it just happened that way. Well let’s put it this way, I didn’t realize what I had been missing until I met her, I am in love and plan on asking her to marry me very soon, as she can’t wait for me to ask her and can’t wait to make beautiful children. I live in Northern VA/ DC area and I notice the looks but it doesn’t bother me. We get along great and took her down to San Antonio and my family liked her, and for those that live down there that can be very difficult. I don’t see or haven’t seen a lot of Latin men with Black woman, but I will tell you she was my first and I love me some Black women. Just for the record I consider myself good looking and I have no problem attracting woman especially my own kind and I do get flirted with on purpose when I’m with her by both Black woman and Latin woman, it’s crazy it’s like a competition. Latin woman look at it like oh what does she have that I don’t, and a Black woman is like ohhhh he likes Black woman let me show him some more… But I love my woman She does her thing!”

Treat them as women

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“As a European myself, I think we don’t obsess about race in the manner American White men do; if we see a sexy Black women, we view her more in terms of sexy than necessarily Black. Similarly, I’ve also noticed that African-American women are more suspicious of dating White men than Caribbean or African women, primarily due to this fixation on race. Yet as others have noted, when we European men chat with African-American women about things in general rather than focusing on race, the ice breaks. Needless to add, I’ve also been surpirsed by how many Black ladies like blonds, at least here in NYC; it seems that you need only treat them as women, instead of some exotic sex toy.”

Black women in your country face such scrutiny

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“There is a huge double standard @The Truth Hurts in the black community in your country as to who is allowed to date other colors (we are all the same race). Black women in your country face such scrutiny when she dates a blond Germanic like myself, and even her “blackness” or loyalty to her “people” is called into question just for being with whitey. But a Black guy can date every fat, redneck the South has to offer or every white porn star/stripper in the U.S. and he still is considered just as “Black” as he was when he knocked up the Black chic. In Europe where I am from (northern Europe), most Black women date outside and not many European women like dark men–England being the exception. Caribbean chics like White males too….it is only a female double standard here in the States!”

The ONLY people who give us grief

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“Same thing happened to me. Every single time I date a Black woman virtually the ONLY people who give us grief about it are Black men. You’d think in Alabama there would be a few White racists making noise but with the exception of one old coot muttering a slur under his breath when we passed him at the mall the only people harassing us were Black men. The girl I dated in high school’s brother gave her shit about dating a White boy 24/7 even while he had a White girlfriend of his own. It makes me very uncomfortable to make any kind of blanket statement like this, but there honestly seemed to be some expectation that Black women had to wait for Black men, but Black men could date anyone they wanted.”

You’re never too old to find love

Older  interracial couple

“I met a Black lady on line 2 years ago. We were married 6 months ago. She moved from the Seattle Wa. area to my area a town of 3,000 people. She is a queen my family members love her as well as my friends. We are both senior citizens and are living our retirements having a good time. I just wished we met several years ago. But things happen for a reason.”

Have Not Dated White Girls In A Decade

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“I am Russian born, my parents brought me to this country. I happen to like dark skin for some reason, and I’ve dated almost every race. But lately, I’ve been gravitating towards Black girls specifically. Why do I like them? I like the proportions, I suppose–the big butt, the big boobs (Lord, do I like huge, pillowy, black boobs…), the whole hourglass figure, those big, fat, succulent lips to kiss… Dang, I need a shower. And I would absolutely LOVE to meet a Black girl so dark, she is bluer than mined coal. You know the streak of blue on the black stone that shines in the sunlight? That is what I’m talking about. Feathers of raven also have that. I’ve also heard term “bluerple”. I have not always dated Black girls. I grew up in Los Angeles, and for the longest time–all the way through college I thought it was damn near illegal for Black girls to date White men, they were so unapproachable. I literally would get “drop down and die” black panther hate stare from them if I dared to come near. At that time I dated Asians and Latinas. It was not until after I graduated college that I finally was able to meet a Black girl. Now that I live in northern Virginia, girls are more approachable and I have easier time meeting them, though DC and Baltimore can be properly scary. It is a lot safer to be with a Black girl in, say, Richmond.”