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I’m a White guy dating an awesome Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“Really enjoy your videos and blogs. I’m a White guy dating an awesome Black woman. She’s a published author of a woman’s guide book, solid Christian woman and very much a girly girl, which I love. Our relationship is characterized by mutual respect and old fashioned values. I am the gentleman that opens doors, brings flowers and pulls our her chair. She is fully capable of all things but allows me these acts because she loves them and is fully secure in herself. I want her to feel cherished and pampered. ¬†You talk in your blog about the “stares” interracial couples get. Most of our disapproving stares seem to come from Black men. A few of these were actually with White women at the time! So too bad Black men. If you cannot or will not appreciate the awesome and wonderful Black women out there then someone else will. I love Black women and think they are among the loveliest in the world. There is nothing “manish” about my girl. She’s a petite little feminine thing that I truly adore. Makes me feel sorry for all the men out there that are missing out,,, then again,,,, NAHHHH!! ūüėČ “

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What I like about Black women

A beautiful Black woman

“This video tells the truth, me personally I really like the curves, smooth skin and especially the natural hair of Black women. And what comes to personality, I really like the temperament of Black women.”

Go out and let go of stereotypes

A beautiful Black woman

“I find Black girls very attractive but what I find most attractive is their perspective in life and their inner beauty. Being a White suburban raised male, I was raised to fear the unknown and to stay with like minded people. However after I took the initiative to break out of that shell, I learned that women, especially those who were different than me, had a different view on the world. They also understood my view since my view is seen all the time in the media. This perspective and intelligence has been very attractive to me. It helps balance between my views so that a better truth can be found of myself and the world around me. To those like me interested in dating Black women, relax and be yourself. Forget about stereotypes because once you date as many women as I have, you will learn that each individual regardless of appearance is very different from one another. There are similarities in groups, and then there are differences and uniqueness. Go out and let go of stereotypes and engage your dates with curiosity, innocence, and genuine interest.”

Y’all are very creative!

A beautiful Black woman

“I never understood why it’s such a huge issue. It’s your hair, do whatever you like with it. But I guess it’s a big political statement. That being said, I love the various styles, natural or not, that Black women do with their hair. Y’all are very creative!”

Black women have amazing personalities

A beautiful Black woman shares a laugh with a friend

“Preach it brother, Black women have amazing personalities always so expressive and open you tend to never need to guess around them they will tell you straight up what they think. I’m very clear about the fact that all women are different and have different personalities but I’m just speaking as a general rule on the basis of the ones I’ve only met, they all seem awesome.”

The first girl to ever pay attention to me

A beautiful young educated Black woman

“When I first got to high school in 67 it was an urban school. I attended all-white schools since Kindergarten, but everyone went there for high school. It was 60/40 Black/White. I was a shy kid and struck out with White girls – most of whom weren’t very nice to me (it was the sixties and if you weren’t in with the cool crowd you were kept outside. The first girl to ever pay attention to me, and flirted with me was Black. I think I was 14 or 15, and she was very nice, and made me feel worthwhile – I mean she thought I was good looking and talked to me as if I had value as a human being – no White girl ever talked to me like that. I wish I had the courage then to ask her out (as I said I was shy and I didn’t have the wherewithal to buck societal prejudices and my family then (OK I was a coward) – both of which I regret very much today). It took me a few years to work up to dating Black women (by the time I reached my early twenties I was fearless), and for me it always was a far better experience than the White women I dated or was in relationships with over the years – acceptance of me, no judgements, a willingness to share interests. Love is love; I just know for me I want to find my soul mate and I want her to be Black. I’m not sure if I explained this well at all but I felt the need to say something. I hope everyone here meets their true love.”

Strength is attracted to Strength

A beautiful Black woman enjoying an intimate conversation with a handsome White man

“White men like Black women’s strength because we’re more secure in our positions in society and so have nothing to prove. We’re not threatened. Strength is attracted to strength.”