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My wife is A GODDESS

A beautiful Black woman

“I never understood the men who didn’t like African
American women. Why do they need to tell the
world they “Don’t like them”. If you don’t like them,
or think they’re ugly just keep it to yourself.
American have tongues that are too loose. It almost
seems as if they are trying to convince themselves that
they don’t want them.
I’m Chinese and my wife is African American (she’s
calls herself Black, but I don’t know what the correct
term is). She’s is perfection in EVERY WAY. She’s
educated, humble, BEAUTIFUL and SEXY, Be*****
looks like garbage next to her (Be***** is pretty…but
my wife is A GODDESS). She’s also knows her place
as my wife and is very loyal. She’s always getting
approached by men of different races, especially white
men which I find weird because I thought White men
hated them.
My family always told me to marry from our own, yet
after meeting my wife when we were dating THEY
rushed ME to purposed, afraid I would let her slip
away lol. American men may not want them, but we
Chinese men NEVER had an issue with them. Real
Chinese people believe that race is not important, but
culture is. If you accept the culture you too will be
considered Chinese. The Hong Kong -neses are the
rascist ones and they were ruled by England (so you
see why they don’t like African Americans)
I think all African American woman should just leave
American men alone forever, then they will be happy,
like my wife. There is literally nothing she can not
have nor anything I will not do for her.”

You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”