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Are Black British girls interested in dating White men?

A beautiful Black Woman

“Are Black (specifically) British girls interested in dating White men?
I don’t mean are they specifically looking for or hunting for White men to date- I mean would they be interested in dating a White guy if the right one came along, or do they favour Black men?”

Why is this behavior so common?

Attractive Black Woman Graduate

“I am an East Indian male, professional, attractive. I consider myself a renaissance man. When I date I usually seem to attract only Caucasian women. I am however attracted to African American women too, but none of them (the educated, attractive ones) seem to date outside their race. I am not generalizing but I have found very few beautiful Black women with men of other races. It’s like “we’ve gotta support the brothas” kind of attitude. Well, as I see it the Black men certainly don’t reciprocate! Why is this behavior so common?”

Curvy Black women: Sexy or not?

A beautiful curvy Black woman

“It’s my estimation that it’s gonna have to be a Black Man that can correctly and effectively evaluate what is thick, fat, skinny etc. A lot of y’all women tend to not be good at that. Y’all classify your image based on how you FEEL.  Not what you are. Prime Example : So many women weigh 90 lbs and FEEL FAT. So many fat girls (200lb+) THINK they’re thick. Both women are a prime example of females misevaluating themselves based on how they FEEL they look. Not what they actually look like.” “Excuse me, you say Blk men can correctly and effectively evaluate, I’m White and I adore Blk women. I can do just as good if not better. A Blk woman that’s 5′ 9″ wearing a size 14 with hips, curves, thighs, 190-210, very dark and large breast is my goddess!!! I love this woman. White women, the Blk man can have them all. You Blk women rule my soul!!! I see a beautiful Blk woman and I have a hard time containing myself. And yes, if she’s with her man I will still, with respect, compliment her.”

 

I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“I am a little late in this discussion about Asian men and Black women. I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman for almost 4 years now. There are plenty of Asian men that love Black women including myself. I think that a lot of Asian men are a bit timid when approaching Black women so for the Black women that love to date Asian men, you might have to start the conversion first. I think that Asian men that are born overseas are less likely to date Black women due to the fact that they don’t want to upset their parents but there are those that would go against tradition and go after what the desire of their hearts. I think that if a man love a woman enough, he will risk everything to be with her. After all He is the one who will be spending the rest of his life with her. Marrying my wife is the best decision that I have made next to accepting Jesus Christ into my heart. I have always had an attraction for Black women since I was in high school. Their strength and inner and outer beauty are what attracted me to them. You know what they say “One you go Black, you never go back” LOL well that is true in my case 🙂 My wife and I would love to be included in your discussion for the future. I think that a woman should not limit themselves to a certain race of men because we are all one human race with similar problems and interest and you never know who God will bring you so if you are open minded then you allow your king to find you and increase your chance of a life long happiness. Sorry I wrote such a long response but I am an advocate of interracial dating and marriage.”

Scare Tactics: They won’t marry you!! They’re just using you for sex!! Married to a Black woman LMBW/HMBW edition Part 1

Beautiful Black Woman

1. “I’m married to beautiful Black woman and not all man or Latin man just looking women’s as sexual objective.”
2. “I’m a Hispanic man marriage to a Black queen and I can say I’m the most happiest guy out there.”
3. “I’m Puerto Rican and my wife is from Kenya African…. enough said my WIFE”
4. “I’m Cuban and my wife is Black beautiful queen lightskin she completes me nuff said wepa mi cuba es mi encante’:”
5. “I am Venezuelan and My Wife is African American and My friends and family loves her and honestly I don’t care what other ppl can think about my wife she is my wife, I mean I care in the fact I would fight against anybody for her, but the only opinion I hear is my wife’s opinion, but I agree in the fact when a Latino man is really in love we give the heart, and we are kind jealous yes that is true 🙂 “
6. “I’m Hispanic… and I’m marrying me a Black girl too! I’m happy for y’all”

He’s only saying what a lot of us have known for a long time

A very hot and beautiful Black woman

“I see nothing wrong with what J**** M**** said. I as a light-skinned Hispanic male know he’s only saying what a lot of us have known for a long time. I also think Black women are absolutely gorgeous. It has nothing to do with that nonsense “fetishizing” which is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. If Black men don’t like the fact that other men of other races are starting to say loudly and proudly that they prefer Black women then fuck them. Black women are winning right now and Black men feel left out is the bottom line.”

Scare Tactics: They won’t marry you!! They’re just going to use you for sex!! Married to a Black woman WMBW edition Part 1

Beautiful Black bride

1. “I love Black women. I have dated Black women, and I am married to a very beautiful dark Black woman.”
2. “My wife is Black and I’m White, and we run into ignorant people on occasion, also. Unfortunately, there are still people out there who just don’t get that we love each other and don’t care what they think. But that’s their problem, not ours. 🙂 “
3. “Married to my Ebony Queen for 17yrs. no one ever has ever challenged my choice of Wife, because I gave of a vibe of “Don’t F with me” (What my Wife says anyway) The only challenges received came only from My Mother. LOL. No one else ever dared to say anything to my face. I am not having that!!!!!!!!!!!”
4. “I see my wife’s different colour as one of the many things I love about her. Seeing her dark chocolate fingers In my pale one’s always puts a smile on my face and it my heart.”
5. “I am with you +marleygirl I am a White guy married to a Black woman and our whole families get along with each other.”
6. “Oh yea I forgot I am White and MARRIED my Black wife.”
7. “This is me and my wife.  I’m not with her because she is Black.  I am with her because I love her.  Love is color blind.  I have been with White, Black, Hispanic, etc.  You name it.  I think that the reason why some of us gravitate towards certain cultures is due to our upbringing.  I feel more home among her family than I do families of others I have been with.  Our personalities match better than any of the other relationships I have been in.  I love this woman….till death do us apart!”
8. “I am a White man and me consider Black women so beautiful, thats why I am married with my Black princess, I love my Black beautiful wife”
9. “I am White Irish/English (so I was told) and my wife is Black. I have dated many races and yet married a Black woman. Love has no Boundaries and racism is just fear and ignorance. I have had more negative attitudes from Black men then anyone concerning our relationship though.”