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Haters, Saboteurs, and Cock Blockers Part Deux

Beautifulblackwoman46

@Allie8_79  “…some Black men’s strategy is to talk Black women down to their non-Black friends and generally discourage IRR between BW and non-BM so that they can keep BW for themselves all the while dating out for as long as they can…”
“Oh yeah. There was a young Black woman I liked during high school [mid-70s], and I was good friends with her [male] cousin. I figured, “hey he can put in a good word for me, ensure her folks that I am a straight up guy and come from a good family, etc” As I learned much later, what a mistake. He told me that “she’s just that friendly with everyone so don’t read too much into that. And, I know she’s only interested in Black men because she told me.” What he said was pretty convincing, so I moved on. Fast forward three decades, and at a reunion…the first time we had seen each other since high school. We picked up like it was yesterday. We both wanted to talk about how we felt about each other. I told her how I had felt about her, and she asked why I didn’t pursue her. I told her what her cousin had told me. She was really mad at her cousin [who had died 2 years  earlier], because none of what he told me was true. She said even her dad [no-nonsense US Navy man] liked me, which would have been half the battle. Since we were both there with our spouses, we couldn’t just run out of there, but we thought about it (LOL j/k) I did get to meet her husband, a really nice Cuban guy. So at least she did all right in the relationship department [and he’s probably a better dancer than me too!]”

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The question

A beautiful Black woman with curves

Why do the Black women in America have such sexy bodies?
“I am new to America but I have found that the Black women have most amazing body. I am Hispanic and I like women with curves, round butt, hips. The Latinas here have what I like to some extent but Black woman is amazing. They have it all. White women seem to lack a nice body, I don’t know why. They have cute face but nothing else and seem plain to me. I don’t know why Black women have such amazing curves… I am speechless sometimes. Do they work out alot…. I don’t know… you must be born with a body like that.”

Natural hair

A beautiful Black woman with long afro textured hair

“Me personally I adore Black women who walk with their natural hair over those who perm their hair to let it hang down or even worse retro fit their hair with pieces of hair weave. I find attractive when Black women who style their natural hair and have it frills or an afro, it really shows how sexy they are and it’s a huge turn on. Me I’m not a big fan of Black women using hair pieces or perming their hair. From what I noticed Black women who keep their natural hair and style it tend to be very educated, open minded, confident, very sure of themselves, professional, liberal. I see plenty of Black women like this when I venture to lower Manhattan and to some extent even in Harlem and yes plenty of Black women like what I mentioned or what this thread talks about primarily date White men. It does not matter what her skin tone is, but just the fact how the way her hair is styled and natural is a complete turn on.”

Black women have such beautiful hair

Beautiful natural Black woman

“I love everything except the wigs. Why do so many Black women wear wigs, extensions, ect… You all have such beautiful hair. I love dark complexions. Something about chocolate skin drives me crazy!!!”

I can’t get enough

A beautiful Black woman doing yoga

“Why are Black women so sexy, thick, small waist? I’m Latino and I have to say I can’t get enough of Black Females!! I notice the ones that are beautiful and healthy(work out) I like it. It’s not always that you find a chick who doesn’t talk about herself constantly like all the Latinas do. I’m just totally into Black, Caribbean, Jamaican, I can talk for hours with these Island Beauties. Who’s wit me AGREE??”

What if?

Intelligent Black woman studying

“Back when I was in high school and college, I have quite a few Black friends and I always think they are beautiful and I wanted to date them but I always afraid to ask them. Because I am Asian, I worry that they would laugh at me. Now, I wish that we still kept in touch but we didn’t. I always think, if I had married to one of them, then, how is my life would turn out to be?”

Dark skin: Alluring, Beautiful, Desirable

Beautiful dark skin Black woman

“When I was a very young boy, my parents were involved in the civil rights movement. Because of this, most of the White kids were not allowed to play with me, so I played with the Black kids. My first little girlfriends were Black, one little girl in particular was very pretty and very dark. Over the years, I did date some White girls, but I always seemed to gravitate back to my beautiful Black girls. It’s more than a physical attraction, I have found most Black women to be more loyal, less whiny, more practical and easier to get along with. A Black girl will work along side of you, as long as you’re working too and will make a better partner than most White girls because White girls want a man to take care of them, but a Black girl is willing to make it a 50/50 effort. My three children are mixed and I’m married to a beautiful dark Black woman. I’m saddened and angered that many people (including some Black folks who should know better) consider dark skin to be undesirable. I think that attitudes are starting to change finally, and that the obvious beauty of Black women is starting to be recognized more and more. The sexy curves, full lips, sensual smooth dark skin and high cheekbones of Black women are very alluring to this White boy.”