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I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman

A beautiful Black woman

“I am a little late in this discussion about Asian men and Black women. I am a Chinese man happily married to a Black woman for almost 4 years now. There are plenty of Asian men that love Black women including myself. I think that a lot of Asian men are a bit timid when approaching Black women so for the Black women that love to date Asian men, you might have to start the conversion first. I think that Asian men that are born overseas are less likely to date Black women due to the fact that they don’t want to upset their parents but there are those that would go against tradition and go after what the desire of their hearts. I think that if a man love a woman enough, he will risk everything to be with her. After all He is the one who will be spending the rest of his life with her. Marrying my wife is the best decision that I have made next to accepting Jesus Christ into my heart. I have always had an attraction for Black women since I was in high school. Their strength and inner and outer beauty are what attracted me to them. You know what they say “One you go Black, you never go back” LOL well that is true in my case ūüôā My wife and I would love to be included in your discussion for the future. I think that a woman should not limit themselves to a certain race of men because we are all one human race with similar problems and interest and you never know who God will bring you so if you are open minded then you allow your king to find you and increase your chance of a life long happiness. Sorry I wrote such a long response but I am an advocate of interracial dating and marriage.”

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My wife is A GODDESS

A beautiful Black woman

“I never understood the men who didn’t like African
American women. Why do they need to tell the
world they “Don’t like them”. If you don’t like them,
or think they’re ugly just keep it to yourself.
American have tongues that are too loose. It almost
seems as if they are trying to convince themselves that
they don’t want them.
I’m Chinese and my wife is African American (she’s
calls herself Black, but I don’t know what the correct
term is). She’s is perfection in EVERY WAY. She’s
educated, humble, BEAUTIFUL and SEXY, Be*****
looks like garbage next to her (Be***** is pretty…but
my wife is A GODDESS). She’s also knows her place
as my wife and is very loyal. She’s always getting
approached by men of different races, especially white
men which I find weird because I thought White men
hated them.
My family always told me to marry from our own, yet
after meeting my wife when we were dating THEY
rushed ME to purposed, afraid I would let her slip
away lol. American men may not want them, but we
Chinese men NEVER had an issue with them. Real
Chinese people believe that race is not important, but
culture is. If you accept the culture you too will be
considered Chinese. The Hong Kong -neses are the
rascist ones and they were ruled by England (so you
see why they don’t like African Americans)
I think all African American woman should just leave
American men alone forever, then they will be happy,
like my wife. There is literally nothing she can not
have nor anything I will not do for her.”

Why people shocked?

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m Chinese, what’s wrong with a Chinese guy marry a African girl? why people shocked?”

One day

African woman Chinese man (AMBW/BWAM) interracial married couple

“One day I’ll have a beautiful Chinese wedding with a Black girl too.”

BWAM?! Do Asian men love Black women?

A beautiful Black woman

“I’m Filipino/Asian I like Black girls.”
“Yes.. Why not??? I like hot Black girls.
I am a 24 years old guy from China.
I am learning english now…I rarely see Black girls in my town.”
“Are you kidding?¬† I think Black women from Africa are gorgeous, very exotic.”
“If that tittle is your question, then yes! Oh, wait. I’m South East Asian. That still counted right?”
“I’m Asian and I’m proud to say I love chocolate bunnies no matter what shade you are.”
“Ima Vietnamese dude and I love me my Black girls I ain’t gon front.. lol”
“Excuse me? I’m Asian and many of us are into Black girls shy or not. I’m speaking for East Asian”
“From my point of view, we Asian guys do love Black girls coz they always keep it real and they are always down to earth. Hey, I love Black girls and that’s the truth. It also depends on one persons interest, but I have noticed, most of the Asian guys including me, we do love Black women <3”
“I’m an Asian man and I love Black women they are sweet, kind, intelligent, and have the best asses.”
“What part you didn’t understand? I’m Asian part? Or I love Black women part? Get this through your head. I. LOVE. BLACK. WOMEN.”

I better find myself a Black girl as well

A beautiful Black woman

“Wow, I better find myself a Black girl as well :D. I should join the trend of Chinese man marrying African woman”

You both have to be strong and know your own identity

A beautiful Black woman with a beautiful smile

“So true. I am a Chinese man and my girlfriend is Black. We have been going out for a few years and we have a great time together and we really care about each other. You are so right about the racial issues. Even on just our FIRST date I got some serious heckling (right to my face) by Black men and strange looks from Asian women just because I was with a Black woman. This continues to this day, but now I know what to expect and how to respond to it.
You both have to be strong and know your own identity. It will be tested, and then tested again. Society is more comfortable with Black men dating Asian women than Asian men dating Black women. It is just part of the world we live in and it will apply that pressure to you both. The two cultures are seemingly so far apart that you may have to try harder to fight the racial and cultural preconceptions about not only being a minority yourself, but also being a seldom seen gender/minority mix TOGETHER.
Any issues you face you will have to deal with together. Sticking together and sticking to your guns is the only way to respond the variety of cultural barrage and questions people WILL ask.
Do what makes you happy and do not pay them any mind. If you’re good, you’re good. Black women can be strong, confident, and oh so sexy.
Be strong, be yourself, and enjoy!”