Treat them as women

A beautiful Black woman with a flower in her hair

“As a European myself, I think we don’t obsess about race in the manner American White men do; if we see a sexy Black women, we view her more in terms of sexy than necessarily Black. Similarly, I’ve also noticed that African-American women are more suspicious of dating White men than Caribbean or African women, primarily due to this fixation on race. Yet as others have noted, when we European men chat with African-American women about things in general rather than focusing on race, the ice breaks. Needless to add, I’ve also been surpirsed by how many Black ladies like blonds, at least here in NYC; it seems that you need only treat them as women, instead of some exotic sex toy.”

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