Archive | 10/01/2014

The most significant thing I learned

Intelligent Black woman teaching class

“Every woman on the planet, pretty or plain, heavy or thin, black, white, brown, yellow or red has love, comfort and companionship to offer some deserving man somewhere. I was taught by Quebecois parents that ugly was a character reference and that all people have something beautiful about them. I grew up in a very small town north of Thunder Bay, Ontario in Canada. I was ten years old and entering grade five in 1966. Our town was made up of European and First Nation people. Our new teacher was a Black woman originally from Alabama I believe and had gotten her teaching degree in Toronto where she had been living. She was the first black person any of us had ever seen besides on television. She was medium height, shaped a bit like Oprah, very pretty and stylish and had a throaty voice. She smelled like lillies. During recess she would walk up and down the rows putting paper on our desks and sing opera songs. I would stare at her through the open windows and wonder of her. Sometimes she would let me help her at recess and tell me stories about America. She was the first women other than my mother that I picked flowers for. I was shocked and disappointed when I returned for grade six and she had gone back to Toronto. Without intention she had opened me socially personally to the “others” that made up the world. If I could love a Black woman purely, as a boy, I could certainly love a Black woman with loves attendant delights as a man. It is the most significant thing I learned in grade school.”

Black women are beautiful QUEENS

A beautiful Black woman with long afro textured hair

“I am a White male and just love a Black woman. A Black women doesn’t put in 100%. If you treat her right and don’t lie or cheat she will put in 1000% and love you and do right by you forever as long as you do the same. She is a beautiful QUEEN who deserves to be put on a pedestal and pampered to death and I love em 🙂 as long as you give her the same love and respect as you want in return no matter Black or White she will fight side by side with you forever. She will love you forever. Give her her respect as a beautiful sexy female and cherish her and see how she responds.”